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@amber22, I hope your congestion clears out soon too. I believe there are pesky bugs going around right now.
I do think my cup needs filling, I think I am running low right now. I guess I need to allow myself to feel, I've been trying to push the emotions away so I can get on with my day, but that hasn't worked out for my lately
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amber22Senior Contributor
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Aw thank you @creative_writer
I think today might be a good start to do some things that make your cup feel a bit more full if you can ❤️
Is there something you can do today that might help?
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@amber22, maybe do some self-soothing things, like grounding and prayer. I am listening to music right now, I don't know if that's helping or overstimulating me further.
Do you have plans for today? ❤️
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amber22Senior Contributor
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Self-soothing sounds like a great idea, I really hope you start to feel like your cup is filling back up again soon 💘@creative_writer
I am just working today and not doing much tonight, a bit of a chill one for me (which I need!)
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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TW: SA
@amber22, I was reading through one of my poems and added a bit to it. I think I understand why it hurts so much, my first sexual experience had to be traumatic 😭. I never wanted it to be this way. It’s like I got exposure when I never wanted it, it’s hard when you grew up conservative.
I hope you are able to get some downtime during the evening 💕
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amber22Senior Contributor
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Aww I am sorry that brought up some hard feelings for you, you're doing really well at spending some time for yourself today. It's not easy some days 💕
Thanks so much, I think I'll watch something later on, what about you? @creative_writer
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@amber22, processing isn’t easy, at least I have some idea of what’s bothering me. Trying to think about how to shift my focus.
I’ll probably rest a bit, my head feels sore. Probably should get up and eat a snack in a bit. I don’t think I’ll be doing much in the evening, will have dinner and just regular winding down, skincare, prayer, getting ready for bed. What are you currently watching?
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amber22Senior Contributor
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A rest sounds like a really good idea 💕 And your night sounds very relaxing, just what you need.
I'm not watching anything in particular at the moment, I watched the movie 'the kissing booth' yesterday and I really enjoyed it, theres a few of them so I might watch that! @creative_writer
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@amber22, I watched the Kissing Booth too, but hated it lol. I know it is popular on Netflix though. We each have our own preferences, I think I’m just extra choosy.
I hope you are able to have a nice warm meal while you enjoy the movie. You certainly deserve it after a day at work 💜
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amber22Senior Contributor
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It definitely was a bit cringey I'll admit that haha!! @creative_writer
Aww thank you, I hope you can ease your mind tonight too and relax 💜
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