“I don’t need people” state of mind

Hi @creative_writer

When l maIntain the place l had to be friendly with some.

If l have an accident or need help l need someone around.

That was emphasis on we do need people.

But some for limited time is fine.

The extraverts i sometomes am glad as they leave. All show. No substance. No emathy

Introverts have deeper value in my opinion. Good listeners. Empathetic. Humble

Hi @creative_writer

I am with you on your reply.

I agree with all.

i rarely open up. I do regret it when l do.

My father was a man of few words. I tell you, his few words were far greater than yappers.

For me, bible verses are the same. Short and wise and powerful.

We never should surrender all to others. It can be used against you.

I am not on any social media.

I do tell some people, just give me the short version. But some want to go on.

I hope l have not gone on.

I do understand what you wrote.

Also words cannot be taken back.

Once we open to others it is out there.

I leave my words in my mind.

It is good you are workjng out how to live peacefully at home

Hi @creative_writer

Re: I don’t even know why others’ opinions matter so much, I would be too “damaged” by some in the Muslim community

Does everyone elses opinions matter?

Or only those that you see as a guide, friend or mentor?

Faith communities can be hard.

Some members of any faith or institute or club or workplace think their opinion matters and harm others.

As we say, who amongst you has not sinned?

You worry about people you respect and no need to converse with the opinionated.

You do not have to answer.

Turn the topic to them.

Hypocrites.

Hi @creative_writer

Most the people I associated were studying Dictors, Soljcitors etc.

I end up a Mdchanic.

I am lucky. My parents made me finish school to a level, then l did my apprenticeship.

So i hear culture expectations.

Sorry your parents may be more concerned about others opinions than you.

I had other issues with parents but in hindsight they guided me well.

Sorry yiu parents saw the stigma instead of your MH.

Very frustrating.

Sounds good that at 18 you get more choice.

I hope you try and put the past behjnd and use your wisdom to seek the help you want with who you are comfotable with.

Unless you are out of line, please do not put much emphasis on others opinions.

You can never please all. Never.

I hope you can break the cycle that affects you.

Strong people still hurt.

Opening up only opens others opinions. Weekly their opinions change.

You are not obliged to open to everyone. It does not mean you are their friend. Some use it against you.

I support you finding a few good people.

Hi @creative_writer

Sorry for typos in last message.

You are creative.

You will sort out the typos!

Hi @creative_writer

I really support your writing.

I hope you are comfortable with your therapist.

I think we need to keep some things within.

Stigma is hard. Some people think people with MS are drunk. They are not. So it is good to see those who go out and hopefully do not worry about stigma.

Have some fun i say. Have some fun.

I feel you are aware since 18 it is your turn now to choose.

I feel you are wise, a bit bruised, but you have the energy to move forward.

Dont worry about others.

You will find your group or network.

I have enjoyed our chat. Thank you