“I don’t need people” state of mind

Hey @creative_writer @and all reading along.

I too feel like I don’t need people, I’ve had too many emotional let downs by people after bringing me up so much and just dumping me.

my relationships last 5-10 years and I’ve had 3-4 relationships with people in my time. I’ve had the pleasure 😂 to meet sociopaths, narcissists, controllers and manipulators in that time also.

me being an introvert I tend to attract these kinds of people it seems. I too like @creative_writer @feel better left alone with supportive people. Which I hope to find more of but atm like the solitude

I tend not to think about it too much @creative_writer I just get on with what I have to do. I too might be too soft, naive and gullible but I don’t want to be a bully I don’t see the point in it. Bullies in my opinion are people pleasers and tend to only gravitate towards people with a similar mind set, given I’ve been through hell, they can expect it when they go through it.

overall I think I’m a good person, when little inconveniences happen I tend not to dwell on it though it’s hard going. I hope you find peace with all the battles you’re having, cause I know I want that

Hi @creative_writer

I agree Bullies target that those "appear" different

Emphasis should be on appear. But even if a person is different, they should not be bullied.

I wonder what appearing to look normal looks like. We all walk differently, have different interests, beliefs, goals, empathy, time, height, weight, vision, beliefs etc.

You are Normal. You are as different to anyone as they are different to you.

I see your name Creative Writer. That is different. Not all are creative and that difference is good.

Before you be like others find out the full story.

To me you sound fine.

You found your way in the forum

We can all improve in our ways we see others are

There will be characteristics in you, others will learn.

Stay you. Just tweak it a bit so you can achieve what you want.

The class clown is a clown.

The social bully is a bully

I would prefer to be a Creative Writer

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@creative_writer wrote:
@NatureLovermixed episodes always carry that high suicide risk too.

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I didn't know that, @creative_writer ...I'm sorry to hear 😞

I understand that masking is essential for survival sometimes.

Sending you best wishes...

Hi @creative_writer

You have social skills because you had a lot of feedback.

I am not big on big crowds.

Do you socialise at all?

What places do you enjoy going to?

Do you have any interests you can share with a few.

Are you trying to mix in big social circles?

Do you know what you are looking for?

Hi @creative_writer

I read you with similarities.

But l am definitely more dog than cat.

Lucky we can choose.

I also like to take the back seat and places and observe.

So much to see in the way people are.

I also think deeper minds are at the back. The front only know what they wanted to know.

I was attending a church pre covid.

My friend who came said she does not like people asking too much about her.

I am the same.

I told her ask them a question and you will find most will go on and on about themselves.

That suits me.

I observed those people were bad remembering names and had no idea what anyone else does.

So l also like the back seat.

I was known as the one who chatted to those no one else would.

My latest interest has been maintaing the grass and stuff at a friends country land. She was scammed into buying sonething she should not have.

So l enjoy my quiet time there. The neighbours are friendly.