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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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@Birdofparadise8

I think they link to Acute Care...

My experience has been underwhelming... they used to do homevisits and sit with you, but not now...

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You don't even want to get me started on Acute Care Teams. I've been in touch with two one in Tas and one in Vic and they both sucked @Kyle1

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@Birdofparadise8 yeah. That's my summation too ... just didn't want to say it outloud

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I stayed away from the house so I didn't have to talk to anyone @Birdofparadise8 . Then I'd go home and go straight to my room because I was 'tired'. But really, I was depressed, not tired. I spent my time sitting at the beach or in my car crying for hours.

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They do nothing @Kyle1

I had a chat with one on Thursday, and they told me to keep doing what I am doing, but if it was working why am I sitting there with them?

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Ah, okay, @tyme did it take you some time to realise you had depression?

It has taken me about 4 ish years to work it out fully and 5 to start getting support for it. I had it on and off in high school and college but didn't fully know till last year.

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@Birdofparadise8 i spoke with them 4 times this week. One guy basically told me to just change my mind!!

The other occasions I get palmed off elsewhere... if it wasn't so saddening, it would be a joke.

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It really sucks how they are supposed to be there to help, but they do the exact opposit @Kyle1

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Yeah. And they look at you like "well, what do you want us to do"?? @Birdofparadise8

And I'm choking inside: Are you kidding me right now? ....

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OMG, yes, like it's literally their job to help us. Or they will say have a hot drink and go for a walk and you won't want to suicide but that is definitely not the case @Kyle1.

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