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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Are you feeling any better?

That's okay. I'm always here for you, no matter what. @ENKELI

Hello @Shaz51

What movies did you watch?

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GlistenSenior Contributor

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@Shaz51 Hugs. Are you getting hit by waves of sadness? Horrible feeling, out of the blue a wave of grief hits you like a body shock.

Makes feeling physically sick just thinking about it.

More hugs my friend.

I hope you sleep.

G

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Unknown userMember

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Gentleness and softness to you @Shaz51 💜💜🌺🌺🫂🫂

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Unknown userMember

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I thought you were talking about your ex friend @ENKELI 🌺💜🙂

Please stay on the forums darling, and take a couple of mins to gently breathe, and know we hold you amongst us as such a beautiful and valued person 🙂💜

do you have a way to do some gentle self care..? 🌺

sitting with you 🫂

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Hey @ENKELI now that we have both had a bit of time including me, just wanted to apologise for the confusion, my posts weren’t intended to hurt and there was no malice in them at all, I was purely clarifying that it seemed to me that and I was hurt by it. I’m not across the story with your friends so that’s where the miscommunication must have come from I hope you’re ok. I hope you can understand where im coming from and all I was doing what standing up for myself @ENKELI I also understand we are in a space where people are sensitive and things can be read with a different intention then what they were posted, there has been no hard feelings from me and never has been 👍🏾

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Thank you ❤️ @Former-Member , @Birdofparadise8 , @Glisten , @ENKELI

We saw a nice easy recipe on social media, I started to cook it and Mr shaz took over 🤣😂 so did not work out like the picture

Ohh well it was still nice and yummy but I think I will make it differently next time -- if there is a next time 😆

Very tired here think 🤔 I will be in bed early tonight

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Cleaning up from dinner too @Shaz51 @Birdofparadise8 you’ll be cross I used frozen mash lol

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Oh no @ArraDreaming

I hope you have a good sleep @Shaz51

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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You been quiet lately @Birdofparadise8 what going on?
I can’t stay all night I’m just cleaning up from dinner and once the kids are sorted I’ll be off for movie or footy or something with the Mrs but I got a few mins

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Quiet how @ArraDreaming?

I've been here.

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