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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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@ENKELI oh no I'm so sorry. I'm here for you.

I know you were talking about your ex-friend.

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Aw, @ENKELI 🤗🌺💜

if you were here I’d give you a big hug! Your kindness, gentleness, and empathy has lifted me up out of the loneliness of the turmoil, and for that, I just wanna say a heartfelt thanks 💜🌺🙂

you’re a special person with so much compassion and I always appreciate how giving and caring you are in moments of vulnerability 💜💜🌺🌺🤗🤗

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@Birdofparadise8 I'm bawling now, being accused of saying something about another forum member comes as a shock to me. I won't go into how it's made me feel but the post in question is below. I mentioned ex friend immediately before the post and don't understand why arra thought I was talking about them

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@ENKELI I will be having that sauna when I get back to Perth.

Having my birthday weekend with relatives in Newcastle.

G

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@ENKELI, sorry that you are feeling this way! You are a valued and respected member of the Forums community and have friends here. Sometimes other members can read things incorrectly or get the wrong idea about what is posted.

Maybe taking a break for a bit and coming back to this with fresh eyes and a clear head, rather than thing you are going to leave the Forums.

What can you do right now that has worked in the past if you have felt like this before?

Take care

RiverSeal

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Oh @ENKELI, my heart is breaking for you right now.

Maybe he just got confused. I don't want to speculate.

I do understand the whole situation with your ex-friend, so maybe that is why. Some might not fully have the picture.

Maybe we can try to move on from that conversation while things settle down for a bit.

Do you have anything comforting with you? I wish I could give you a hug.

I'll always be here for you, so know you're not alone. I also agree 100% with what @Former-Member said about you. You are a very special person, especially to me.

I hope you don't want to leave. 🌸🫂🥰🌺👸🏼👑

I will let you borrow my crown if you would like. It might need to be straightened on your head, however.

I just saw the photo. Oh, that was definitely about your ex-friend; I didn't even think of it being towards Arra.

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Hello @Former-Member , @Birdofparadise8 , @RiverSeal , @Glisten , @ENKELI , @creative_writer , @Blackbird11 , @ArraDreaming

Been awake since 1 am this morning so today has been a couch 🛋 day for us , we have watched 👀 3 movies 🎬 during the day

I had a teary moment earlier 😢

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@Birdofparadise8 you are an absolute angel. Thank you for you love and kindness.

You truly are a princess 💕💐👸👑

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@Former-Member thank you for your love. You are a beautiful soul and always say the sweetest things 💕💐🦩

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@Shaz51 much love and hugs sweetie. Enjoy your couch day, you've earned it 💐💕

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