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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Aww well, you have us here @ENKELI

Uneventful here @Former-Member

Things are tough at the moment, but I'm trying to distract myself.

Oh no, I'm sorry you fell.

@ENKELI @ArraDreaming @tyme

I am pretty sure this is about what happened a few weeks ago and how we had a bit of a heated moment and maybe @ENKELI thought @ArraDreaming was ignoring her.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Yeah, all good @tyme I’m not annoyed at them and I thought I was pretty clear in my responses… I see no issue and I’m not annoyed at anyone, being told I have a malfunction is a bit rough but anyway, I got other things on this arvo so I’ll leave it.

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tymeModerator

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I did. I don't know about what happened. @Birdofparadise8 @ArraDreaming @ENKELI

Please reach out if there's anything we can do.

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@ArraDreaming I wasn't referring to you, I was referring to my ex friend and more recently another "friend", who've both caused me a lot of emotional trauma. I've spoken at length about ex friend and how badly she hurt me.

Like my other post, if I have issue with someone I am straight up about it.

I felt you were ignoring me as I had made a couple of comments and got no response. All good, apologies that I was feeling overly sensitive.

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Unknown userMember

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Thanks sweetness @Birdofparadise8 🌺🙂

Yep, distraction is good, and I hope you can enjoy a bit of time occupying your mind and emotions with something uplifting 💜🙂

I would love to go out for a while - just have to wait till dinners finished..overcast days are my best friend! Hehe 😉

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tymeModerator

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Thank you @Birdofparadise8 @ENKELI @ArraDreaming for clarifying things. We really appreciate it.

If you need anything, please email the team so they can support you.

Once again, thank you.

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Ok well the comments about me ignoring you and then the comment about people who don’t like you must just be the ones with the malfunction were poorly timed to make it sound like you were referring to me, you know, given you had said only a post before hand that you thought I was annoyed at you and not responding then you made that comment. I wouldn’t be wrong to think they were connected because it sure seemed like it. Like i said, I’m out ✌🏽

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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Thanks for clarifying

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Yes, well, it only helps to a point, but anyway. @Former-Member

What are you cooking?

Hey @ArraDreaming @ENKELI

I hope you, too, are okay.

Now I'm getting confused over the term malfunction. I think the post may have been removed so that could be why.

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@tyme arra seems to think I was talking about them. The conversation with birdofparadise was about my ex friend and her 2 kids who were my God children who I supported emotionally and financially for 8 years only to have that friend almost destroy me around this time last year. All anyone has to do to is look back on the conversations I've had with several people over the past 6 months.

I'm in tears now and don't want to be involved with this forum

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