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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 I am not in the position to tell you what it means, it is best left to your psych. Psych can also access if he thinks it’s accurate for you too. But anxious attachments sounds about right

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Right okay @creative_writer

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Unknown userMember

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It’s ok @Birdofparadise8 🌺🙂

I wouldn’t do that at all dearest ☺️

I’m a very calm and very reasonable person, and I always consider the feelings of others before I speak, so I would like to gently say that you can count me as someone you can trust to not be offended or angry with you, ever 🙂

I know you’re trying to do your best by forging a path in a world that has not been kind or easy, and I know that this brings its own insecurities because I have also experienced this in similar ways 🌺

please try gently to keep in mind that I am here with you, holding space for you, and have hope for you ☺️🌺

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Unknown userMember

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It’s ok @Birdofparadise8 🌺🙂

I wouldn’t do that at all dearest ☺️

I’m a very calm and very reasonable person, and I always consider the feelings of others before I speak, so I would like to gently say that you can count me as someone you can trust to not be offended or angry with you, ever 🙂

I know you’re trying to do your best by forging a path in a world that has not been kind or easy, and I know that this brings its own insecurities because I have also experienced this in similar ways 🌺

please try gently to keep in mind that I am here with you, holding space for you, and have hope for you ☺️🌺

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I really appreciate it @Former-Member

Thank you

I've tagged you in the posts.

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Unknown userMember

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It’s ok @Birdofparadise8 🙂🌺

also, this is something else to keep in mind: if you ever feel uncomfortable with anything I post, just tag me and I’ll do my best to explain 🙂🌺

Thank you for tagging me - I’ll take a look tomorrow and reply then 🙂🌺🤗

take care and I’ll catch you then 💜🙂

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Okay, I will keep that in mind @Former-Member

Have a good night.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Hey @creative_writer @ArraDreaming @Snowie @ENKELI @Blackbird11

Is anyone around to chat?

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ENKELISenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8 hey there princess, how's your day been?

I've had a bit of a busy day, visiting my girlfriend with the 10 000 cats (lol!), then had to go visit mum and set up my computer for her to use. She also wanted to borrow my air fryer so I was showing her how to use it and all that.

I also repotted some plants and now I'm sitting and watching TV wondering what to do for dinner. I think it might be toasted sammiches 😃

How are you going?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Wow a busy day @ENKELI

My day has been mixed.

I don't know if you want to, but if you just look back at a post from when I was at the pool, that would explain things.

I finished my assignment but it's way over three minutes.

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