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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Captain24 hope you got a little sleep hon and your appointments go well

💜💜

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Nah.. I didn’t get any sleep. @Snowie. My bestie rang so I talked to her instead.

I did get one dog bathed though and had a shower and washed my hair. I’ve straightened it so I’m hoping that if I look ok this afternoon my Pdoc will think it’s all ok! 😜

My dietitian is in half an hour so I’ll bath the other dog after that. I’m trying to keep busy so I stop being so scared of this afternoon.

I hope all goes well with your mums appointment today and you are able to get support for you both.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Keeping busy is sometimes good @Captain24 Keeps our mind of things. I hope your appt. goes well for you hon. Well done for having a shower and doing your hair. It does make us feel better.

Hopefully you can at least get some rest today.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m sitting here waiting for my dietitian and you should see how I look! I have a nice shirt, my hair done and trackies with no shoes. You can tell it’s a zoom appointment.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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The dietitian asked if I was willing to change my eating habits and I said not really. I feel like I just wasted her time. She is lovely and caring and was really more concerned about my MH.

I’m really stressing about my next appointment. I am terrified and don’t want to go. I don’t know if I can do it.

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PaperdaisySenior Contributor

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Hey @Captain24 I haven't been on here for a while, nice to see you. I hope your appointment goes well. What are you worried about? 💝

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Hey @Paperdaisy

It’s been a while. How are you?

It’s with my Pdoc and I’m not sure if I’ll be coming home from it. I’ve been in a really bad way. If it wasn’t for my two dogs I probably wouldn’t be here. It’s that bad.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m sitting in the car park. Dreading going in.

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amber22Senior Contributor

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Hey @Captain24

I'm here with you and sending you virtual hugs

You've got this

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I’m shaking @amber22

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