Welcome! Introduce yourself here 🙂

Dear @BeNormal ,

Welcome to the forums! You have been so brave to make the step to be clean for your children.

I acknowledge this is a huge step for you and you deserve all the support you can get.

There are many here who have experienced the self-harm and instability that comes with BPD. I hope you will find the support and connection here on the forums that will support your recovery.

Tagging a few members who may want to pop by and say hi. @Appleblossom @BPDSurvivor @Bow @maddison @Judi9877

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Sorry to hear @BeNormal . What device are you using? It looks a bit different on different devices.

Hi there @BeNormal and welcome and welcome to the forums. It’s nice to meet you! I’m a Community Guide here and it’s my job to welcome new members and to show them around the forums. I have a lived experience of depression, BPD and schizophrenia so I know of the difficulties, challenges and the positives and rewards of some mental illnesses that you have despite everyone’s experiences being unique and different.

I don’t have an addiction background behind me but I’m so glad you’re in a okay getting support for your issues. That takes courage, bravery and strength and I’m so proud of you for choosing to do this. I know your children will be so happy for you once you overcome your problems and I’m very glad to hear they are at the forefront of your mind. Your love for them comes shining through here as you speak of them so well done! Keep up the great work!

I’m currently in hospital at the moment dealing with my mental health so I’m not as frequent in the forums right now but I just thought I’d say hi to you.

Take care!

Judi9877☺️💐🍀

Hi Judi n our new member.

Your welcome message is so inspiring and courageous to all of us.

Hope you are well again soon and please send more messages.

Hi @BeNormal ,

Thank you for your post.

As I read, I could see so many similarities in my life - having a distorted image of self, being caring and loving, continued self-harm etc.

With support, I have survived BPD and now live a full, complete and content life.

I hope you will be able to get the support you absolutely deserve.

Hugs, BPDSurvivor

Hi @BPDSurvivor BPD Survivor,

I think I am making progress in accessing a better psychologist. I need a psychiatric evaluation to see if this BPD thing is current. I don’t know. I’m all over the shop atm. What sort of therapy helped u?

Thank you for your message 🙂

hi hiii, first post here 🙂

man, I've started writing this post three times in the past few days but each time I've run out of time. hopefully this one makes it 🤞🤞

anyway, a bit about myself... I'm a creative person, I like to draw and make music. I'm making a game slowly slowly when I have the time, and I have a few plants that I'm training to become bonsai. I've got two jobs as a peer worker, and I'm currently studying both the cert iv in mental health peer work and intentional peer support. which adds up to work for 5 days a week, and study for 3 a week. I'll let you do the maths on that 😅

I decided to make an account here because I feel like I need a space like the ones I maintain at work, but where it's okay for me to put a bit more focus on myself. maybe these forums can be that for me. I'm curious to know about everyone else here as well of course!

Hi .

Am told by my neighbour that she been suffering depression since her 1st child born , now 14.

She said important to get good physcoligist.

She been on meds for a long time and now down to 5 mg day, but been using cbn oil for 4 mths.

I had a poor physcoligist any want to get right diagnosis before getting another?.

Like you.

Hi there @Backspin

It's definitely a good idea to get a good psychologist and that can be difficult. Psychologists mostly have long waiting lists. I recently tried to get into a psychologist my gp recommended but when I called they told me they are not taking any new people. So I had to go down the list and call one who was taking new people. I have to wait a while to go and see her.

Are you wanting to see a new psychologist to get another opinion about your diagnosis?

Sending warm wishes

Hanami