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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
I feel like my thoughts are out of control they are around SH, am safe but am struggling with the thoughts I have been so stressed the thoughts are just coming back. I don't want to have my addiction to SH again. I want to stay clean.
@Former-Member - am safe
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Hi @Fluttershy1 , yes, I'm in Melbourne too and the wind yesterday was scary! Sorry you lost power...have you got it back yet?
Hoping you're feeling a bit better today...
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@NatureLover - we got power back, lots of trees fell, it was scary for sure. Went shopping last night and it was pretty quiet so that was nice.
@BPDSurvivor - you can't change people, but my family are not willing to take advice that people have given them, they have so much stigma around MH.
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@NatureLover @BPDSurvivor @MDT @Judi9877 @Snowie @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Bunniekins @Eve7 @Zoe7 @frog @jem80 @@pinemushroom -
Today is just a mess, I feel like none of my family care about me they just make me feel bad and judge me. When I ask something sometimes they won't respond, they yell at me for no reason which upsets me more and triggers me.
my best friend is hanging out with my ex that is abusive. I am just over everything at the moment I just feel more and more stressed. I've been crying and yeah.
Am safe
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SnowieSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 💜💜
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Thanks @Snowie, feeling really upset and overwhelmed
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SnowieSenior Contributor
I'm sorry to hear you are feeling that way @Fluttershy1
Hoping you can find something that helps you even a little.
💗💗
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Can you sit and chat @Snowie
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SnowieSenior Contributor
Have to take D to work soon but will be around for a bit in between that @Fluttershy1
Have you got many plans for the weekend?
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Not really @Snowie- just taking it day by day..
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SnowieSenior Contributor
Thats ok @Fluttershy1
Have you got anything planned for this evening?
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