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Memories

Memories

When I was in high school I often didn't pack a lunch. Partly laziness, partly nothing much there to eat. I'd chuck a couple of apples in my bag and a can of soft drink (which cost 50c back then) and then not eat the apples because bleh. But they were there if I got too hungry.

I was friends with a girl back then and she started noticing I didn't ever bring much food with me. She started out pretending like she wasn't going to eat all her lunch and share hers with me. Eventually she started just packing extra snacks--fruit buns I recall--for me to have. Wednesday's she'd buy her lunch from the canteen and she'd get me a hot chicken wrap. She mothered me a lot back then. She didn't have to, I didn't ask, no one told her to, she was just a really good person.

I think of her often, and I feel very grateful to her. She was always very kind and caring. I remember I started calling her "Mum" as a "joke". But it wasn't really. She took good care of me like mother's are meant to.

It makes me ache to think back on it now.

@BlueBay @TAB @MDT @Appleblossom @Bow @Powderfinger @NatureLover

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Damn @The-red-centaur that was blo*dy beautiful. Yep. Tears in my eyes reading that. Thank you both @The-red-centaur @Anastasia for the support. I so wish there was a way to be here together right now, but this is still greatly comforting. Thank you both for being here for me always. Love you guys.

I gotta go, picking my son up and stuff so will try and check in later.

thanks again to both of you, feel very lucky to have crossed paths on here

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(((( @saltandpepper @The-red-centaur @anastasia))))

Hehe can't tag lil ol me 😄

You guys are awesome, make me teary too. Very lucky to have found you both 🙏

Stay safe @saltandpepper. Enjoy your gorgeous boy 🙏💞

Ahhh @The-red-centaur it's really good to see you sounding more positive. Makes my day x

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Just re-reading these posts, @Anastasia @The-red-centaur I really treasure you guys. Thanks for being here.

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Thank YOU for being here @saltandpepper, you're a "good egg" x

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Don't know about a good egg @Anastasia but maybe one that's dangerously close to its expiry date--questionable, iffy, bit of a gamble, but could be ok

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How are you boys going tonight @Anastasia

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well I beg to differ @saltandpepper 😁

They are good, the ended up going to their Dad's for a couple of days so hence being here just don't know what to do with myself really!

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Well you could rewatch that pinocchio movie maybe haha

Don't enjoy the time to yourself much then? @Anastasia

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Hahahahaha funny fecker @saltandpepper I just almost spat my drink out.

I'm still in pj's and doing diamond painting so yes I do. Its been so long to be able to just be. If I had known both were going I would have tagged along. My best friend lives close by so it would have made for a fun road trip, and to see her would have made my day but it was last minute and I don't do anything well last minute. I think I will go and watch something on telly a movie or something. I was contemplating a bath but I'll save that for tomorrow during the day so it's not so cold.

Hello gorgeous @Emelia8 👂💕

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Yeah I hear you, I don't like last minute things either. I don't like planning too far in advance either though haha just difficult aren't I?

could always give your friend a call on the phone. Not the same but still be nice. I think it's good both your boys went together, sticking together is good. Your boy is comfortable going to his dads with everything that's going on? Or are you on call?

yeah be a bit late and cold for a bath I reckon @Anastasia. Blankets, chocolate, netflix :ok_hand:

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