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Memories

Memories

When I was in high school I often didn't pack a lunch. Partly laziness, partly nothing much there to eat. I'd chuck a couple of apples in my bag and a can of soft drink (which cost 50c back then) and then not eat the apples because bleh. But they were there if I got too hungry.

I was friends with a girl back then and she started noticing I didn't ever bring much food with me. She started out pretending like she wasn't going to eat all her lunch and share hers with me. Eventually she started just packing extra snacks--fruit buns I recall--for me to have. Wednesday's she'd buy her lunch from the canteen and she'd get me a hot chicken wrap. She mothered me a lot back then. She didn't have to, I didn't ask, no one told her to, she was just a really good person.

I think of her often, and I feel very grateful to her. She was always very kind and caring. I remember I started calling her "Mum" as a "joke". But it wasn't really. She took good care of me like mother's are meant to.

It makes me ache to think back on it now.

@BlueBay @TAB @MDT @Appleblossom @Bow @Powderfinger @NatureLover

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Hey @Anastasia ive already had two coffees. I'm laying in bed wasting the day. I could be going so much - walk, gardening, knitting But I'm wasting it. I'm bored no motivation to get up snd go.
I feel lazy sad and just horrible. But I don't know why.
Actually j I'm m crying now but don't even know why that's happening. I should go. Sorry to post on here.

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Oh sweety,

I'm sorry you're crying and sad.

Can I tell you a secret? I'm in bed too! Haha you're not alone hunny. After your night give yourself permission to rest. Its ok to do that. I would like to stay in mine but I need a coffee and I am expecting my boys any time so I need to be up to learn of their last couple of days. Rest easy sweet @BlueBay, you've got this hun x

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Sending you love.

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