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Howdy,I don’t know how to write this in a tactful way, but I’m just so tired of being a burden to everyone. I’m tired of my disabilities and mental health dragging me down and taking everyone I care about with it. I’m tired of ruining my own life because
HiIm unable to find a partner and have no friends or family because I am too ugly and gross. I was consistently told this throughout my childhood and have been told this as an adult. My parents never really wanted me. It would’ve been better if they’d giv
Late last year I was having very suicidal thoughts. About February there were improvements and then some set backs again. Come the 1st of August was the date that I had set for myself. I was doing ok until the day before and then the 1st. A few things wen
Hello, I’m SunWolfMoon. I’m 19 and have spent nearly my entire life with constant thoughts of self harm and suicide. I’ve been in therapy for over ten years now but I don’t seem to get any better, I really want to get better. A few years ago I would have
Hi Forumites,We’re very happy to share our new-look Better Off With You website with you all.🔗 betteroffwithyou.org.auThe website, which launched this morning, offers a wealth of information, resources and support for people managing thoughts of suicide a
i hurt the only person i cared about. I love her so much. I hate my self for hurting her. I feel ashamed and discusted for what i did. I honestly cant live without her.
hello, This is my first post in nearly 2 years. I am grieving a significant loss, and struggling to find time for myself in a busy life. I am feeling burnt out and often think about self-harm and suicide.
For the most part, I think I’m doing okay. I can laugh and enjoy the good moments in life. However when something happens, even if it’s small, my mind wonders to self harm. It’s like it’s always there, in the back of my mind. This has been happening for a
I've just had my 5th negligence for the year and my 12the negligence all up. I don't feel safe anywhere. I don't feel safe around people. Today I became an aunty and instead of being overjoyed and full of love, I'm crying uncontrollably flooding with trau
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