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Tinkerbell12New Contributor
Was in a long term relationship with a nassist 4 years ago, have decided to start dating again and been together with my new partner for 4 months but I'm having alot of trouble trusting him and I have very low self-esteem which is braking us up
In response to: Relationships
SioneSenior Contributor
In response to: Relationships
HistoryloverSenior Contributor
Me too, @Tinkerbell12. Just trust as you are able. Don't negate your concerns, just keep them unobtrusively in mind. Trust is hard earned, as it should be. It protects us.
In response to: Re: Relationships
AppleblossomSenior Contributor
@Tinkerbell12 Good luck in your new relationship.
Dont collapse your own point of view too much.
Women are often so wired to love and forgive and accept.
I really like what @Historylover said about trust.
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