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I’m struggling with my boyfriend. We had a baby 6 months ago, his first but my 3rd. I feel like he’s withdrawn his love from me and I’ve just learned that I now have an anxious attachment and he has an avoidant style. I’m feeling unloved and my brain is l
A few weeks ago, I discovered that my husband has been unfaithful for most of our marriage. I found a phone that he had been hiding with hidden social media accounts, full of women that he was sleeping with. One of these women he had been sleeping with fo
wanted to connect with ex Narc survivors to hear their experience .I ended a 3 year relationship with my fiance and Im strugglings to stop thi8nking of him .He was constantly meeting his ex a married woman I discovered by going through his phone ( not my
Hi there, I am struggling to ask for help, and I don't really know where this would be categorised and this is basically a condensed version because it truly is a really long story. I don't really like sharing with therapists or people that judge me for e
Hi I felt like I needed to reach out. I'm in a situation where I've made my partner feel unsafe because of my actions and I'm desperate to show her that what I did is not the man I am trying to be or want to be. First of all let me say our marriage was go
Broken. My partner of almost 10 years has just decided to pull the plug. Feeling lost, alone, broken, confused and torn, cant stop crying . He says it's him and the family trauma he has dealt with for most of his life. But also says that he feels as
I am 31yrs old. i meet a poly couple online and have met them in person a few times in the past. They seem great people but say that I work too much as I do work 7 days a week 2 different jobs but that was my coping mechanism. I have a diagnosis of major
My partner of 23 years has decided he can not stay with me because he is suffering from severe depression. I too suffer and I'm currently not doing to good. I feel like my life is falling apart and I don't want to be here any more
Hello,After what seemed like a perfect and very healthy relationship my ex discarded me with no opportunity to speak or discuss. We had an extremely close and loving relationship where we were open with our feelings and felt extremely safe. The
I need some perspective. TLDR;I love him dearly but don't know if I'm being manipulated into thinking I'm the problem when I'm not or at least not entirely the problem, or if I actually am. I know I need help as well, but I also know that 9 times out
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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