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Having a hard time

Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Having a hard time

Hiya,

Things have been really hard of recent I've been in and out of hospital for my physical and mental health, things just seem to be getting harder. Days are getting longer.
I've been getting changes in my support team... Things are becoming new again, more supports because of my SI attempts *Im safe*


My physical health is declining causing me to be in and out of hospital more.

I'm trying to stay strong but it's hard, things keep going upside down when I'm sort of getting better.

I just wish it could be eaiser not harder. I'm over going to and from hospital.

I've been disassociating a lot, finding it really hard to stay present, when I can stay present it isn't for long. I just wish I could be better.

I'm safe 🦋

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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Hiya @Dani1981 @Anastasia @Former-Member @Shaz51 @outlander @Lee82 @Bellarose75 @Former-Member @Eve7 @Bunniekins @Snowie @Zoe7 @Emelia8 @BPDSurvivor @jem80 and anyone else passing by.

Things have been hard lately I've been keeping to myself, I've just started schema therapy which has been abit triggering and hard. Got a lot of things going on for me at the moment.

Family have been really judgemental and I feel abandoned from them. My Anxitey has been extremely high and been feeling really unsettled. I don't know how I feel at the moment. My head is a real big mess.

Am safe🦋

Take care🦋🐢

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BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor

Re: Having a hard time

Hugs, @Fluttershy1

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Hello sweet @Fluttershy1

Hugs and love hunny 🤗💕🌹

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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Thanks @BPDSurvivor, not having a good time at the moment with the family issues. They still don't believe about my BPD

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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Thanks @Anastasia 🥺💙

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BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor

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Hi @Fluttershy1 ,

How are you feeling today?

In terms of your BPD, people can disregard the label if they want, but all in all, they can't disregard you and what you are feeling. You can't make people understand what they don't want to understand.

By having the BPD diagnosis, it allows you yourself to work on strategies. It gives you a clearer insight into your challenges so that you can work with them.

I hope today brings a better day for you.

BPDSurvivor

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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hello and hugs for today @Fluttershy1

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Re: Having a hard time

Hiya @Dani1981 @Anastasia @florenceforty @Shaz51 @outlander @Lee82 @Bellarose75 @BabyDragon @Eve7 @greenpea @Snowie @Zoe7 @Emelia8 @BPDSurvivor @jem80 @Bill16 @Meowmy and anyone else passing by.

Things have been abit tough lately, I've been keeping to myself, just had a lot of family issues going on.

I just wish it would get eaiser, I feel like rubbish. I'm safe, just feeling sad

take care🦋

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Dani1981Senior Contributor

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Oh dear, @Fluttershy1

I am sorry to hear that.

Have you been doing anything to try and get your mind off what is going on? I ran on my treadmill this morning and was able to get over the rut I was feeling all yesterday.

Hope you find something x

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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@Dani1981 - I'm just curled up in bed feeling gulity. Got a headache and just feeling very emotional

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