Moving forward

do whatever you like @TAB I gave myself a talking too ... for giving straight advice .. which I actually dont approve of .. lol .. but I think I annoyed you, and others, by being round about in my statements. Ah well ..

I think my alert is always on for conflict ... but I know that I need to learn to roll with it more ... not let it be a total blow up ... there are so many things we think .. we can only agree on so much ..

@Former-Member also thinking about @Former-Member but also dont know what to do .. she is great at being supportive .. and I have to trust that her process will help her through ... I actually do believe ... we need to find our own solutions

reading up http://dulwichcentre.com.au/articles-about-narrative-therapy/

but it has been my belief from the beginning .. dont give advice .. as we get chockers with it .. and it usually suits the advice giver

..slowly slowly starting to realise that @Former-Member .. and yes, re context etc .but wasn't expecting that a week after the fact, and I wayy over reacted .. anyway ..stuff happens, and she really did nothing wrong, I tried the 'olive leaf' thing oh well

do what you do @Appleblossom I'm getting used to it, it's fine.. I've just got to get a thicker skin and sort my own stuff out.

we all bleed when cut .. and dont always know when our own hard won views are opposed to or trigger someone.

I hope you all come through it .. it has also been good having the easy-going banter about

I am tired now so might hit the sack ... I prefer gentleigh bentleigh ... but theres a place for other ways

Night

Hi @Former-Member @Appleblossom @TAB 🌷💜

Don't know if I've caught you all ....

Just woke up from the iPad-face thing ....

@Former-Member has been around passively this afternoon .... "liking" occasionally .... I think that was her intention from something posted this morning .... just to take it as it came today, but stay around as a part of mindfulness ....

Hugs @Former-Member .... 💜💕.... 😘

Heading back to sleep again ....

See y'all 2moro .... ❣

..schlaf gut @Appleblossom.. was just on emergency run to servo for food .. funny, as I walked out 'All You Need is Love' by Beatles was playing ..

Morning Everybody .... 😊

How'r you going @Former-Member .... 🌷💕

Thanks for your support @Kurra, @Faith-and-Hope, @TAB, @Appleblossom, @Former-Member

Im OK and hoping to be through the worst of it but just trying to climb out of the dark hole and start living again. Back to baby steps 😏.

I think I will be a bit hit and miss on the forum whilst I try to sort myself out.

thanks again 💜💜💜💐💐💐

Hey @TAB i just read through this. Nope I didn't save it up but I guess I needed to realise that I entered into that conversation not in the best headspace and was a bit too forward. Just so you know it did hurt but I did learn so I see it as a win. I was honest when I said I was grateful for it. It was good learning for me. I think I was trying to transfer that learning back to you, possibly not done well though. And you didn't contribute to my collapse, I'm pretty good at doing that all by myself with the added bonuses of many life stressors that happened over the last few weeks. I'm not one to hold a grudge, never have been, never will be. Thanks for the olive leaf/branch, holding one out for you.Take care @TAB. 💜😊