Moving forward

Wohoo on the job @TAB 🎉🎈🎊🍻. Just had a quick read. I bet that helps a bit. Good luck💜😊

...yeah, a bit 'up in the air' re job, re 'i's dotted and 't' crossed ..sounds definite tho, yes, bit of a celebration here tonite haha. may be just what I needed, if not just for the dough which def need lol @Former-Member thx I'll have one for you and others on here ..oh, and me

Hi Pez7, welcome to the Forums & thank you for taking the time to share your story. My name is Elsie, and I am one of the Moderators. I am glad that you do have some family support in your current sad and quite recent turn of events in your life. I imagine that many of our Forum contributors have experienced similar situations in their lives. What do other people think would be helpful?

Its the best thing when siblings have that collaborative and creative experience ... @Former-Member

I am putting on a face ... kids will be home soon .. but I am in crisis again and took 2 prn ... feeling very angry ... did not sleep ... stayed away from current choir ... as they were rehearsing 'coincidentally' at the same place as old choir ... nup ... the old choir thing did not work out as I hoped ...

a madam from Berry Street ... with delusions of grandeur and high standards which include undies from David Jones and other unnecessary excesses on taxpayer funding .. has asked me not to come tonight as the poor bully who is just gorgeously blunt might be distressed at the sight of me ...

ropeable might be an understatement ...

thanks for asking.... this is such a new experience for me to have people .. who even bother to ask the basic questions

Hi Pez7, welcome to the Forums & thank you for taking the time to share your story. My name is Elsie, and I am one of the Moderators. I am glad that you do have some family support in your current sad and quite recent turn of events in your life. I imagine that many of our Forum contributors have experienced similar situations in their lives. What do other people think would be helpful?

Hi @Pez7,

so sorry to hear that your having such a tough time. Break ups are so challenging. I'm in a different space in that my ex and I tried to stay best friends but because of our really unusual situation it wasn't healthy for me to do so. I've now almost cut ties but I still have to separate the house and things yet but can't face it just yet. Moving forward is hard when that person was your life. I don't have a social life as such but have a close friend I catch up with to watch a movie with about once every three weeks. I don't work yet either. I am guessing that it might be an idea to look into over 50s clubs or other interest clubs at the local community centre. I've looked the clubs but I'm not ready yet for that kind of social engagement. I know it seems weird but much of my social life is currently on here just chatting to people. I have young adult and teenage children which keep me busy still. I'm sorry I can't be of much help but feel free to keep chatting if that helps. Hopefully others can jump in and offer suggestions as well. Take care💜😊

Wow @Appleblossom .... that's perfectly awful .... 😳😖😠

Can you walk for a while, or will playing your music get you through this .... ?

Feelin' for you sooo badly ❣

Hugs n hugs .... 💜💐💜💐💜💐💜

I joined a choir ... I asked some one to be calm in my personal space ...choristers sing close together ... that is being disruptive ...

so I did the right thing and doped myself up and moved on and out ... good girl Apple ... it happened a year ago ... and I stuck it out til about March then left, nicely, without a scene ... given the flick again by social bullies cos I wasnt cheerily chatting about my latest overseas trip ...but now I want to make a big scene that they will never forget.

Edited to protect anonymity