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Feeling overwhelmed - not coping 😮

Feeling overwhelmed - not coping 😮

Today I'm finding it really hard to be positive. So many things on the to-do list, but feel so angry, frustrated and anxious, that I can't do anything. Hate the feeling of not coping. I've been struggling with PTSD, anxiety and depression since I was a teenager. Feeling like it's all too hard and never ending. I do everything I know to do to get well, but it's feels so hard. Need a break from this torment.

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Good morning @Former-Member. So nice to hear from you. For some reason I can't scroll through the whole thread! Errr technology 👎😂. I'm so hearing you. I was on meds, few different ones but yep stopped working, actually I felt suicidal mixed with alcohol on couple of occasions. So I thought it was a loaf of crap, & took myself off. I did go out! It was a done deal, so I drank copious coffee before the time. I was on edge at first but I accepted this is me right now. My son actually made me day, he's definitely an undiagnosed clown or adhd candidate..totally off in his world. But he cushioned my load. I love my boys so much. They really help me sometimes. I am the sort to change my mind last minute. I'm happy in my own world where I don't have to deal a heap of people's agendas a lot. It's exhausting, I know! My partner says I read way too much into things at times, but it's my survival coping mec...I've been this way since I was little. It's got me by just fine 😊. It's so interesting isn't it, the US have such better an idea of add and adhd. There's an interesting article, I'll find link for you on a doctor that deals with female adult adhd. She talks about how it goes undiagnosed in females, hormones, menopause (not there yet!)...I e. But so reflective of how doctors dismiss & over prescribe anti depressants etc. I guess the fact your meds haven't worked kind of makes you question like I have? I'm terrible with memory, appointments either I forget, turn up too early, late etc etc...I sometimes wonder if it's just sleep deprivation but in essence I've always been fickle, flighty, started many things, many jobs etc etc. I think family, friends just see me as creative butterfly. Who knows! But I've been putting off asking doctor as I don't want to be minimized and made to feel it's all in my head! I think it's that wise thought vs feeling @Former-Member brought up at play.😏. Anyhow I'm rambling but I DO hope today you feel a bit brighter. Even if it's just getting yourself a super nice coffee. Definitely one step at a time. Lists suck! I write many, loose, forget them etc Lol!!

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Found it! @ Bridget.
The link you might like to check out:
http:/youtu.be/52tE94XdKrA
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That would be great if your work can transfer you, I hope it works out easily for you and doesn't become a stress, @Flower88 Like you mentioned, probably not the best to stay with family with little kids. As cute as they are, they can be full-on.

How was your sleep?

I woke with a feeling of panic, for no apparent reason, grrr!

At least I'm feeling better than yesterday. What a day that was.

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Hi @Former-Member That's good that you managed to get out last night. How old are your boys?

I had a terrible experience with alcohol and medication years ago.

I was talked into trying another anti depressant at the end of last year. Oh, this one will work, she said, oh my gosh, I've heard that so many times. I trusted again and after 2 months of mostly being in bed, I decided to get myself off them. I won't try them again, I can't count the number of anti depressants I've tried. I wish they would work for me, but they don't. It would be great to be able to take something to make us feel better, wouldn't it? If only it was that easy.

I understand about trying to remember things. I have a small diary where I write everything in it. Phone calls I need to make, bills I need to pay, appointments, everything, otherwise I wouldn't remember either. I lose reminder notes, so perhaps it would help you to have a small diary, somewhere handy. I keep mine in the kitchen and couldn't survive without it Bills wouldn't get paid, for a start my husband doesn't even know when we receive them, hehe!

Thanks for the link, I will have a look at it soon.

Look forward to chatting again soon. I hope you have a nice weekend.

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@Former-Member I can't get onto the link. If you don't mind giving me her name, I can look it up, thanks.

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I can't exactly remember the name of the book on ADD/ADHD @Former-Member But it's written by Dr Amen, a psychiatrist in the US. It was so helpful for me reading it, because doctors haven't been able to help me.

I think you'll enjoy reading it as well. I borrowed it from the library.

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Thank you @Former-Member..sorry busy been on walk with son's & dog! The lady is Dr.Quinn. Um if you Look up the national centre for girls with ADD...il try grab copy of book u mentioned. I think I had too much coffee yesterday,coupled with latest night...feel bit spaced but with energy 😱

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Thanks @Former-Member

Sounds like you need a nap. Do you nap in the day? Even just a short one helps.

Yes, I think you will really enjoy the ADD book, by Dr Amen. There are different types of ADD. Dr Amen scans his patients brains before he treats them. It's a special type of scan. It shows the activity of the brain. People with ADD have less activity in the Frontal Cortex, the front part of our brain. Often caused by head injury. Really interesting book. He tries to help people with natural remedies, but he does perscribe medication as well. I wish there was a doctor/psychiatrist like that over here.

My husband read a good book, How to love someone with ADD. It helped him understand me a bit more. I didn't end up reading it, as I had just read a few books and have had enough of reading for the time being, information overload.

Read a few books on healing the gut as well. There's so much to learn. Our gut plays an important role on our whole health, even certain brain chemicals are produced in our gut. So I learnt that I need to heal my gut.

Anyway, I'm a bit of a chatter box sometimes.

I hope you had a rest.

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He, he...I know chatterbox well, drives my partner mad at times, because he gets the slog of it! Thank you, I did need a nap. My youngest went with partner, whilst others two ran riot, I closed my eyes for half an hour or so on couch. Gosh sure needed it. I realize my conscience starts to run on a different level, not for the better. The book & method he uses sure sounds like a great read. I'm excited to find copy of it. I ran it by my partner, that I'm suspecting I may have slight ADHD...he said yep, the hyper for sure. I think I will go get checked out, to cancel out in my mind what's going on. Funnily enough I was dropped on my head as a baby. Dad's friend has always felt bad! Who knows heh. Anyhow getting kiddies sorted, I miss a party tonight. Funnily I would liked to have gone..no matter. Thanks for thinking of me, it's nice to be reminded I need to rest.😊 I notice my thoughts start to become paranoid.😏

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@Former-Member..sorry tag I forgot! (Above)
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