Depressed how fo I communicate with my wife

oh my goodness depression101, can i please email you? let me help. just for a chat at least.

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Hi @depression101

I'm sorry to hear things have got to the point they have.

I'm really glad you reached out on these forums though. No one deserves to go through what you are at the moment, and I want you to know, you're not alone.

I have dropped you an email to check in with you.

Please take care.

Nik

Hi again @depression101

I saw in your other posts that you said you don't want to die but you feel like it's the only way for your wife to be taken care of financially.

I also saw that you said you have tried a psychologist and hospital and neither of them worked. You mentioned that no one really wants to help.

We really want to help 🙂 There are many here who have also felt like they have been backed into a corner, but have come through the other side. It takes time - but finding the right combination of what works for you and finding the right support is worth it.

And this community is here to help you along the way 🙂

Hey @depression101. I hear where you are coming from. I lost the love of my life 3 years ago through MI. I have no magic wand and can't fix it for you but I wish I could. As far as I can see there is nothing to be gained, her financial stability is up to her as she left. You know you have a great capacity for love, so do I. I hope that one day I'll find love again but for now I'm slogging it out until I'm well enough that I can. My ex partner and I knew each other since I was 12. We've had chemistry together since that age but MI took that. I don't like it but I've accepted it now. It took two years for that acceptance. Do you want to share more of your story?
PS I'm feeling like hell today and have been going through wave after wave of urges but I'm still plodding through and hope you can too. I'm still here. I wish you all the very best. 💜😊🤗💐

Take care @depression101 💜