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Lee71Senior Contributor
Don't know How to tag by tahts ok. Km so very tired, but still sleep avoids me. I never feel safe, not in my surrounding, paranoia how the list goes on . Only neescti this for tthe next few days.
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@Former-Memberthank you
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:@NatureLover very kind of you but I'm not having therapy today.
Its been changed , I have doctor Thursday morning, then therapy and Friday I meet with my case worker and after that I have tests at the hospital .
Oh...I know you don't like changes in routine...I hope it's OK for you...and that makes for a big day on Thursday... @Lee71
@Lee71 wrote:How are you doing today ?
I am better again today, thanks...
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover
Thank you for sharing something so very personal with me. I would actually love to hear you sing ...to where you are...because that song makes me think of my daughter. And today I'm really struggling with that.
I hope the singing does stick around for you .
As for my routine being changed, so much else is going on ,change in routine which I do dislike is the least of my worries.
@Emelia8 
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@Emelia8
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Thanks for your kind response, Lee.
@Lee71 wrote:to where you are...because that song makes me think of my daughter. And today I'm really struggling with that.
I am so very sorry you are in such pain today with the loss of your daughter...I remember what you said, you said it was "beyond pain". I don't actually think there is any comfort for so immense a loss, not ever 😞
@Lee71 wrote:As for my routine being changed, so much else is going on ,change in routine which I do dislike is the least of my worries.
OK...it sounds like you feel overwhelmed 😞
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover yes I am very overwhelmed, I've reached out t o my case worker so we will see.
I want to apologize to @Emelia8 too.
I'm not sure what else to do, I'm Tryung to keep myself together emotionally
, Failing. That's what I do best, fail
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:@NatureLover yes I am very overwhelmed, I've reached out t o my case worker so we will see.
OK, I hope she responds well, Lee...I am sorry you feel so overwhelmed, that feeling totally sucks 😞
@Lee71 wrote:Failing. That's what I do best, fail
I am sad to read this... I think you actually do an amazing job at holding it all together, with all you have to battle with.
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover
I'm not doing so well at the moment
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:@NatureLover
I'm not doing so well at the moment
I hear you, and I'm sorry things are so incredibly tough for you at the moment. 😞
Sending you a big gentle hug...
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover thank you
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