The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

@Eve7 I can’t withhold visits with the ex or he will no doubt take it to court, which could end worse- the family court system is very screwed up. I told child protection and the police who he is, but as I didn’t have enough evidence they didn’t care. I have to trust that when she’s not in my hands, she is in Gods hands and he will protect her- hard though.

Hey @Shaz51 🙂

@ChelseaFox04 that all sounds like a good plan in taking gentle care of your self over the next couple of days. Lots of rest and planning to do things that help you manage is good- sometimes I struggle to do that.

Glad you were able to reach out to the helplines.

That is very difficult for you @Bow Anyone I’ve known who went through the family Court has spent thousands only to see the ex ignore the orders anyway. It is, by far, the worst institution in this country with the only winners being the lawyers.’

I think God will be your strength in this matter.

Much love 💖 🤗🙏🤗💖

That’s exactly right @Eve7 ! It needs a massive overhaul and even then, there will be people that will screw the system and others. It is what it is I guess.

Im desperately waiting for an appointment to see a psychologist so I can start processing all of this.

I hope your appointment comes soon @Bow and you get an understanding Psychologist.

💙💙

I hope you get an understanding and compassionate psychologist too @Bow

That's half the battle I've found through my recent experience. I wish you all the best with this.

Hugs,

WIP x

@Maggie He got 4th in his tennis tournament yesterday just missing out on 3rd as even though they both got 30 points overall the other child won 2 out of 3 games and Mr 8 only won 1 out of 3games

@Former-Member Congratulations to Mr 8. Coming 4th is really good. 🏅🏅

I hope it’s a rest day today, or doing something pleasant for you. Leaving a coffee in case you need one. ☕️☕️💕💕

@Lostandalone @WIP @Eve7 @Bow Leaving a fresh brew for when your day starts. ☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️💕💕💕💕💕

Thank you @Maggie I hope today has some kindness in it for you.

🤗🤗🤗

Hi @Maggie,

I'm extremely proud of my Mr 8.

I am off to meet up with the in laws for lunch today.

I wrote a bit here about what I've been dealing with though.