The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

🙂 Well that is excellent @Lostandalone

well done to you. And very good to hear. One day I'll make my debut too! 😂

❤️ @Shaz51
@Bow
Im sorry this sounds like a super horrible place to be in. 😔 Don't let him win your thoughts too. People who always need to control send me insane. It's too much.
Am here also. ❤️

i need a way out

his making me physically sick it hurts

Hello everyone and @Shaz51

looking forward to my escapism at the Bachelorette tonight, the finale too!

aww @Bow I am so sorry your ex doesn't respect your feelings and boundaries.

it would be so hard to move on with your life to a brighter future when your past keeps reminding you of all the hurt.

Reach out, people do care.

@Bow @Former-Member @Lostandalone @Shaz51 💕💕💕

Hi @Maggie hope your ok

Hello everyone, and @Maggie thank you for the tag.

hope everyone is feeling a little brighter today. The weather over in WA is sunny and warm. Although I don't like it above 27 deg.

I really love the name of this thread @Lostandalone

I really felt unsafe the other day when I read about how someone joined because it was requested of them to do as per their course studies. To know this is what students are asked to do and post a copy of them joining to prove they did it! really upset me. Though she tried to follow through with that she also has a mental health condition. But, this was not her reason to join regardless. It has taken me months to gain the confidence to join, I am a very private person and have trust issues with certain things. I was going to leave, I felt so exposed even though I know we are all annonimous. I tried to talk to my hubby about it but he is so over my mental health that he doesn't want me to even be on here or to discuss it again. I don't have anyone else. He has always been very supportive, but is burnt out and I don't blame him. Being 'dumped' from the clinic has left me in shock I suppose.

Please don't feel obliged to respond I just needed to vent.

@Former-Member I read that post also, and felt the same as you. I’m a very private person also, and struggle to get how I’m feeling out. I did notice a moderator addressed it, which helped me feel a bit better.

I’m sorry you’ve been dumped from the clinic, and have no one to talk to. It makes it so hard.

No obligations felt to respond, just a heartfelt understanding and care.

Sending you lots of ❣️❣️❣️❣️

Hi @Bow how are you tonight?

Big love

💕💕💕

@Eve7 Feeling flat and defeated in relation to all that. Divorce is horrible, relationship might be over and cut, but have to continue to deal with his crap, his control and demands and him ruining our lives for years to come. It’s been 3 years of hell, 14 to go! Sigh

physically it’s been a long day. I’ve felt like throwing up all day and my stomachs been in knots and to top it all off have a horrible cold or something.

I did some painting this morning to try and distract me, but spent the afternoon in bed.

Thansk for checking in