@WIP wrote:
Hi @Anastasia
How'd the remainder of your afternoon y'day pan out? I hope the massage helped. Do you have to have them regularly to help your lymphatic system? Good excuse for a massage, I say. But I suppose having issues with your lymphatic system isn't a nice trade off. Does it cause much trouble
to your day to day health?
Rest of the day was non eventful. Trouble from slight lymphatic system varies depending on what actions I take. If I walk, eat well, take meds, have massage, then pain is kept at bay mostly with the exception of nights when I need to take pain relief at times. If I don't then I can be in a lot of pain. Dr has suggested Lupus. Confident it is just a sluggish lymphatic system so focussing on what I can to get it moving. Obviously I'll revisit lupus scenario if down the track I'm still battling itnd no results.
Oh @Anastasia Is love to spend time in a room where I can just smash plates etc. I think it was a Law & Order SVU episode once, where in NYC, they have rooms just like that. You get to smash up all sorts of stuff - I remember thinking at the time, what a great idea for stress release.
Yes. I believe they exist. I have put yesterday's meeting out of my head as much as I can mostly as I can't do anything to change the outcome and will just ride the storm in January. I can't worry about it. Whatever will be willl be 🎶🎵 Kay sera sera lol
Yeah, I've spent the whole year putting up with a crappy medical team, and I'm happy to have found this lady. We just 'click' and I enjoy her approach to therapy. Although she did warn me, she can be pretty full on when she feels I'm ready for it. But, at least she sees the potential in me, she understands the old me and is determined to get me back there!
That is so good. I love that you have found her ❣️💞❤️
I had a nightmare about my sister last night, so her latest choice not to engage with me until Christmas at least, has had a deep impact. I don't know what to do there. It's not my fault I'm unwell and don't behave or communicate always as she expects. But she has this control over my emotions and she knows it. She knows what buttons to push to hurt me and does it with a smile on her face sometimes I reckon.
No it is absolutely not your fault. It's a shame she does not have the empathy and compassion needed. Something lacking in her emotional "system" certainly not something you can change. I'm so sorry as I can imagine this would hurt very much. My boys father is the same with him and my boy holds very deep emotional wounds around it. Hopefully now that you have a good therapist she will help you work around your emotions as to how you react to your sister. That is what my boys therapist is doing with him. I guess the word is acceptance around things you can't control.
How is work going for you this time of year? Does
ot get busier,or are you in a continuous state of
busy. I do hope your anxiety levels are alright this morning and don't peak during the day.
Work is crazy. I am tying up all loose ends around the facility and organising the Christmas functions, there are three. My boss likes to party. I do like to be busy but it's a little much.
thanks for letting me babble again 😉
Not babbling hun. Love to catch up with you @WIP
L & Levi 🐶🌻🐶🌻
