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Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Hi, I have just joined. I have a few mental illnesses, but am especially interested in hearing if there are any diagnosed germophobes or people with hoarding disorder on these forums?

I don't know any germophobes in real life, and would be interested to know how any of you pre-Corona germophobes are doing. Can you find enough sanitiser? If not, what are you using instead? Has your germophobia gone sky-high in this pandemic? Do you find it less or more lonely now that nearly everyone is a self-confessed germophobe?

My germophobia is quite bad - I can't have anyone in my house, and need lots of sanitiser when I go out. E.g. I use it after leaving my house and before I get in the car; again before I touch the steering wheel, again after touching my purse, again before putting my seat belt on, etc. I am struggling to find enough sanitiser. If I run out, I was thinking about diluting some disinfectant and putting it into an old water bottle to take out with me. I had one really bad panic lasting 3 days that was debilitating, due to COVID-19, but after that thankfully my germophobia came back down to normal levels. I guess normal levels are not that great but at least I am used to them!

I am strangely finding it more lonely as a diagnosed germophobe now, and would really like to meet some other germophobes online and hear how you're going. At least I had a friend tell me that I was in a stronger position than him, during this health crisis, as he had trouble remembering to wash his hands, whereas I wash them a hundred times a day already!

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Re: Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Hello ladies @NatureLover @Clawde @Eve7 @Shaz51

@Dimity Gentle hugs

I have had a few great days. A Christmas in July lunch, a concert with friends, a rehearsal where I had lots of fun, playing the organ and trying to sing tenor and pulling lots of funny faces. Today I had a U3a lunch and had a great time talking science and being personal. I don’t think I have ever had such a good social week. So very grateful. Sending healing thoughts to you all. Not scoring an A plus on the tidying though…lol.

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Have a good week @NatureLover .

You too @Appleblossom @Clawde .

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@Dimity I hope it is just an ebbing and flowing regarding the forums. My feelings have ebbed and flowed a lot over the years. Even though it is online, if we are sensitive we can be hurt.

@NatureLover I have enjoyed your steady friendship with Dim, and that you love nature. I did a load of dishes today and cooked, and it was appreciated. Sigh! The little things. @Shaz51

@Clawde

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Hi @Dimity , I miss you being around 😥

I've been awake since 4am. Have made a decision about my little job - not to take it up. I think I've overcommitted. I'd much rather work than tidy the house, but I need the days off like I had before, at my old job.

Yes, the house is getting out of control again and I've well and truly ruined my goal for my psychologist.

Worried about you...hope you are OK. Have you received the second fence quote yet? I hope things with your family haven't deteriorated any further... Sending hugs 🫂

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@NatureLover 🫂 Hugs back.

Feeling very fragile.

Sorry to hear about the little job but you can only do so much.

Quotes - no. Family - troubling. House - out of control (we have that in common!).

Take care.

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Thanks for your message, @Dimity ❤

So sorry you feel so fragile. 🫂

Sorry also that things aren't improved for you 😥

I've got a friend who's pressuring me to apply for another little volunteer job with her. I'm interested but at the same time think it will be an overload.

I think my S.A.D. has arrived too. 😣

Really hope things look brighter for you and you feel a bit stronger soon. 🤞

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Oh no @NatureLover the S.A.D. is bad news. Hope you can nurture yourself and sit in the sun as much as possible on your days off.

I'm trying to keep going but for all I know I could be making things worse.

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Thanks, @Dimity ❤

Do you mean making things worse with your family situation?

I have the in-person appt at the hospital with my psychiatrist today. He's changed the appt 6 times, so I hope it does happen today.

Good luck chipping away at the house...

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Gosh I hope you got to the appointment OK @NatureLover and the hospital wasn't too stressful.

Last couple of weeks I haven't done much on the house so I'm nervous of home help tomorrow.

I'm getting in hot water for lots of things at the moment. Forums included. I've ended up confused.

I'll try to focus on what I can manage, and get back to the clutter.

I hope your new job is going well...

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Oh gosh @Dimity - I hope you get a good home help today, and not the critical lady!!

My psychiatrist cancelled on me again. Rebooked for next week.

So sorry you've been getting into hot water on the forums (and elsewhere) 😥 Sending hugs 🫂

My main job is going well thanks, and I'm enjoying it. I pulled out of the little job, but am considering another little job. It's a bit further away though and I don't want to overcommit.

Dog walking today and I'm enjoying the sunshine.

Hope your day goes well, especially the home help 🤞

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