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Suffering in silence

Suffering in silence

I'm a aussie guy 44 and live alone, I have done for a while as I lost my family members to tragedy after tragedy. I lost my wife and kids because of my inability to open up get the help I needed, now 8 years later I have been in a worse position. No friends no family and no direction for my aching heart or my mind of confused confetti. I try to sleep lots as I am not hurting when I sleep, but if I dream of a loved one I wake crying realize that i'm alone and hate the world more once again..I get up each morning and say today I will go out and find things to do. But I cant do it as there's nowhere to go...Although last Sunday I made it to church but I couldn't muster the courage to talk to anyone...I feel each day I become more invisible and soon no one will miss me here?? Help please anyone 😢

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Hello @Shaz51 how are you today?I had some solid hours sleep today and woke up feeling much better🙂to the point I find myself out in my oasis garden getting my hands dirty and my flowers to bloom🤗 I cannot Express my gratitude for you all enough..I know I have a ways to go and I will find a backward step now and then but I know who I will turn to😉My Angel's..All of you..xx

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Very good @Lonelyhart , way to go my friend

One day at a time

Where I live we are having monsoon rains which makes my husband who has bipolar 11 and other diagnosis, a bit low today

When the sun comes back out , he will be up again

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@Lonelyhart how are you today

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@Lonelyhart Hey Lonelyhart just checking up that you are doing okish? we are all here for you my friend. Love peax

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Hi @Bunniekins @Shaz51 ,I'm ok just taking one step at a time ..Still very lonely though😢just cant seem to find the right outlets for my path going forward atm.but I shall battle on as lonely as this road may be...thanks for checking in on me xxx

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@Lonelyhart Hey Lonellyhart dont be a stranger 🙂 okay. Take good care of yourself and keep in touch. Love greenpeaxxx Hey @Shaz51 🙂

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I'm trying but I'm in perth so different times lol...but its easier to shut my phone off for days than go days without hope it may ring😕but I will try @Bunniekins @Shaz51

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@Lonelyhart you are a good man I can tell by your posts. It wont always be like like this I am sure of that :).

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Thank you @Bunniekins your encouragement means alot ...I know I have the up days (not very often) and the down days (more often) I have this saying stuck on repeat in my head "Nice guys never win" :face_with_rolling_eyes:I hate it but all signs point to it being true ..

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@Lonelyhart Hey nice guys always win in the end :). I have to go out for my early morning walk. I will keep in touch. Take care of yourself. Love peaxxx

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