Good luck this week @Faith-and-Hope with the legals.
It would be wonderful if the financials were wrapping up too but that seems a good while away yet.....but its all unpredictable right now, who knows maybe you'll get a result in 2021. Your poor son, panic attacks are the pits. I made an absolute fool of myself and was so embarrassed at the dentist's about 4 years ago.....my oral health kept being put off and put off and put off after that incident, I couldn't step out the front door.......I got there a few weeks ago and 3 and a half grand later I am paying the price for how my anxiety disorders impact my physical health 
I really feel for you, being the target - I've been there Faith No More, several men have wanted to completely destroy me, and I know what it feels like to pretty much lose everything & everyone and on top of that lose the capacity to rebuild all that you've lost - only to be left in the dust. And what makes it worse there are no consequences. Absolutely none. The concept of justice was invented by human beings, it is just a concept.
Any way I'd run over my Nana for a cup of tea so I better go
Corny 