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Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......

Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......

Hi everyone .... 👋💕

Time for a new thread.

I will tag a few people who have been wonderful in supporting me here on the Carer’s Forum, and I ask that you please help direct anyone to this thread who you find looking for me.

@Former-Member @Determined @Smc @Former-Member @Teej @outlander @Shaz51 @Adge @Corny @Former-Member @Maggie

I will add a silent @ Zoe7 here, mindful that my beautiful butterfly friend is in need of a time out, and has not at all been overlooked.

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Thanks so much @Former-Member ..... it was a hard day today. You must have known something 💞

I hope you are managing okay.

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You will get through this @Faith-and-Hope and out the other side. You won't be the same person at the other end, and will view life and people very differently, but you will get through. He used you, you were a function. And for that he most definitely does not deserve you. You are too different. He needs someone more like him, and it sounds like he found it. Abusive people are hollow inside, that's why they find it so easy to replace you. They lack the capacity for true connection because they are inherently self-focused and all decisions and relationships are self-serving.......there will be relief for you once you are free of him. Corny

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❤️ @Corny

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@Faith-and-Hope

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@Faith-and-Hope

Keep up fluidsGrace in all work

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❤️ Thanks @Appleblossom ..... really appreciate it.

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with you @Faith-and-Hope

@Former-Member

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❤️❤️❤️ @Shaz51

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Just dropping in for a check in @Faith-and-Hope . I'd love an update. I've just read back and it seems as though you are going through a really rough patch.
hugs incoming

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Hi @Teej .... 💜

Yeah, it looks like it's going to be a rough patch from now until our family law issue is finalised .... and maybe beyond, because we have a disabled dependent "forever child" ..... 😔

I am managing by focusing on anything and everything else, and coasting / floating in between to try to conserve and / or recover energy. He will do his worst, unfortunately, but as I think @Smc indicated from other people she knows, it's actually exposing him for what he is more and more the longer our case drags out. If that helps others, including my baby dragons to raise their shields, that is a god thing. I just have to outlast the continuing abuse, (his) lawyer-sanctioned, that is continuing to arrive in my Inbox and via construction of my finances.

There will be a day of reckoning.

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