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Sleeping too much
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Hi back @TAB, just found your last few msgs+ as not getting a lot of email tag notifications. So goodnight for last night bahaha 😼😸 Ta4drinks last night, cant remember much, going to sleep etc, oh - did you lace my baileys last night? hmm? lol
What ya been up to today? I think my body thinks I'm in a coma, must go for walk, now the lawn before cyclone rain cones south. Hohumm😼 mm...
🎵 HoHo Ho Ho, its off to work we go... Never mind me 😵 cabin fever or something, check back after A walk👣👣👣👣
💙 💙 you guys here. xox
What ya been up to today? I think my body thinks I'm in a coma, must go for walk, now the lawn before cyclone rain cones south. Hohumm😼 mm...
🎵 HoHo Ho Ho, its off to work we go... Never mind me 😵 cabin fever or something, check back after A walk👣👣👣👣
💙 💙 you guys here. xox
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Out walking with me this morning are ya @Former-Member ??
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Does 40min mowing the lawn count @Faith-and-Hope 😇 Sure did work up a sweat & palpitations - resting a bit - needs more petrol. So glad it started. Nearly ran over a baby bluetongue, so cute the way he was hissingvup at me. My car isn't here, did I hide it, gosh i hate my mood swings (dissociative states), need to go check the usual place, unless its stolen. Might have to 'regroup' (gather the alters and check before calling the police lol), cant be far cause i had to walk back. Oh dear lol
@Shaz51, did you get good rain from the cyclone? the rain depression is heading our way and its overcast and eery and starting to sprinkle. The gardens gonna look good (and the grass grr).
@Former-Member, thanks for callouts last night, missing a lot of tags and the last two days are a blurr. Sounds like you're coming to terms with things, not easy for you. Its clear why the mind suppresses things so we can cope. Don't know if I'll ever go back. Your brave, big hug 💕
My fav aunty finally answered one of my tx after losing her hubby in Jan. She has her 2 girls and grandchildren and two sons in law and 'staying busy' she said so she doesn't think. I really should ring when I can find the confidence. Just nice to hear from her.
Can't open my sisters letter that arrived this week - what could she possibly have to say to justify not talking to me for 5years? I can't think of anything I want to hear but 'sorry' and, well, the proud and stubborn arrogant rich independent snobby chip on the shoulder wounded (oh soz, got carried away), they, she may not have matured past that yet. Mum hasn't, she didn't ring yesterday - got my brother to. So, not opening her gift she mailed - her text msgs haven't asked if I liked it. Just hurts to be treated like a leaper - mum and sis have money, I don't, its easy buy 'things' - what I want from them can't be bought. Grr, tempted to ask 'what have I do e so wrong?' but with manipulative people they just use that to get control. My conscience is clear, just working on a deeper level of forgiveness.
Where'd that cone from. Oh yes? Do I open my sisters card? I think not, just had an idea - maybe with my psychologist next visit. Hurts too much.
@Shaz51, did you get good rain from the cyclone? the rain depression is heading our way and its overcast and eery and starting to sprinkle. The gardens gonna look good (and the grass grr).
@Former-Member, thanks for callouts last night, missing a lot of tags and the last two days are a blurr. Sounds like you're coming to terms with things, not easy for you. Its clear why the mind suppresses things so we can cope. Don't know if I'll ever go back. Your brave, big hug 💕
My fav aunty finally answered one of my tx after losing her hubby in Jan. She has her 2 girls and grandchildren and two sons in law and 'staying busy' she said so she doesn't think. I really should ring when I can find the confidence. Just nice to hear from her.
Can't open my sisters letter that arrived this week - what could she possibly have to say to justify not talking to me for 5years? I can't think of anything I want to hear but 'sorry' and, well, the proud and stubborn arrogant rich independent snobby chip on the shoulder wounded (oh soz, got carried away), they, she may not have matured past that yet. Mum hasn't, she didn't ring yesterday - got my brother to. So, not opening her gift she mailed - her text msgs haven't asked if I liked it. Just hurts to be treated like a leaper - mum and sis have money, I don't, its easy buy 'things' - what I want from them can't be bought. Grr, tempted to ask 'what have I do e so wrong?' but with manipulative people they just use that to get control. My conscience is clear, just working on a deeper level of forgiveness.
Where'd that cone from. Oh yes? Do I open my sisters card? I think not, just had an idea - maybe with my psychologist next visit. Hurts too much.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Great idea .... opening sis's caed with the psych next visit ..... ❣
Yes, you hid your car .... you told us .... lol .... we come in handy, don't we ?? I use my last post on the forums from the night before to work out my sleep tally sometimes ... or at least to add a few hours to it.
Yes, mowing sure does count @Former-Member ..... and housework is great exercise, even pieced together in little bits .... which is what I do now. Got so overwhelmed with it so often that I just can't pick it up like I used to. Have to strike deals with myself to get it done .....
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Yes, you hid your car .... you told us .... lol .... we come in handy, don't we ?? I use my last post on the forums from the night before to work out my sleep tally sometimes ... or at least to add a few hours to it.
Yes, mowing sure does count @Former-Member ..... and housework is great exercise, even pieced together in little bits .... which is what I do now. Got so overwhelmed with it so often that I just can't pick it up like I used to. Have to strike deals with myself to get it done .....
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Thanks @Faith-and-Hope, woolies is close, probably up there, put it there a lot the year my girl died 😵 Yes, you guys, the forums do come in handy. Guess people have memory blanks for different reasons.
My Brisbane friend is trying to ring, not up to her yet, cancelling the walk and not having time for me on the weekend.
Doingbmy will, solicitor wants proof I purchased the plot the plot my girl is, trying to sort it with Cemetery, sad business.
Are you grtting some energy back?
Did you see any dulphins today?
Is D3 still moody?
When's WH due back? You have the patience ofca saint re him 😇
My Brisbane friend is trying to ring, not up to her yet, cancelling the walk and not having time for me on the weekend.
Doingbmy will, solicitor wants proof I purchased the plot the plot my girl is, trying to sort it with Cemetery, sad business.
Are you grtting some energy back?
Did you see any dulphins today?
Is D3 still moody?
When's WH due back? You have the patience ofca saint re him 😇
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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I love the "him" who is buried under all this e.d. :pile_of_poo: @Former-Member .... as do the kids ..... so hard dealing with the him who is not "him" .....
Wouldn't even know if there were alters involved here, but that would make sense ..... just too hard for me to work out on my own so I can't scratch over it all too far ..... have to just wait and see what comes out of it all eventually. Met with his dark side momentarily over the phone yesterday, but I just ended the call and pushed it all aside .... spoke to our priest about it, who came for dinner and blessed the house .... annual thing for Orthodox Christians .... should have been January, but better late than never .....
Yeah .... I would be letting Brissy friend go through to answer-phone for the mo ..... great self-preservation there @Former-Member .... ❣. That's integrity.
No dolphins yet today, but I have just walked for an hour and stopping to rest, so I might see them yet .... here's hoping .... always special when I do ....
They weren't feeding up at the bridge where I sometimes find them .... they have to pass through there on their way up and down the river.
D3 is swinging mood-wise .... usual to her age in some respects, but compounded with the WH thing. She was the youngest when it set in .... she has more understanding of how he was before from how I and the older kids talk than her own memories ..., which is tough .... but that's just what it is ... so we all have to just get up and on .....
Hugs my friend ..... 🤗🎍💕
Wouldn't even know if there were alters involved here, but that would make sense ..... just too hard for me to work out on my own so I can't scratch over it all too far ..... have to just wait and see what comes out of it all eventually. Met with his dark side momentarily over the phone yesterday, but I just ended the call and pushed it all aside .... spoke to our priest about it, who came for dinner and blessed the house .... annual thing for Orthodox Christians .... should have been January, but better late than never .....
Yeah .... I would be letting Brissy friend go through to answer-phone for the mo ..... great self-preservation there @Former-Member .... ❣. That's integrity.
No dolphins yet today, but I have just walked for an hour and stopping to rest, so I might see them yet .... here's hoping .... always special when I do ....
They weren't feeding up at the bridge where I sometimes find them .... they have to pass through there on their way up and down the river.
D3 is swinging mood-wise .... usual to her age in some respects, but compounded with the WH thing. She was the youngest when it set in .... she has more understanding of how he was before from how I and the older kids talk than her own memories ..., which is tough .... but that's just what it is ... so we all have to just get up and on .....
Hugs my friend ..... 🤗🎍💕
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TABSenior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
Snap re cabin fever and sleep ins @Former-Member well at least you did the lawn. I did front lawn the other day, ribs didnt seem to like it the day after, so back jungle still not done, told a friend they say how could mowing lawn affect ribs ..am being a bit over sensitive to it maybe, although its there all day and wake up with it grr ..oh well, will feed self and pay a few bills today, that might be it.
Take it easy re sweating etc with lawn, dont have to do it all at once, but good to have it done I guess.
How is your new dog friend?
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Unknown userMember
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I know you love him @Faith-and-Hope, and the family unit. Its wonderful.
@TAB, soz your #Ribs such a bother, do take it easy. Don't worry about ignorant people's comments, never had a bad day or broken bone once in their life I suspect. I only mowed the back lawn, did front 10days back, Think my mower might need a service, playing up grr
Just walked up and found the car car at woolies, grabbed a bag of groceries for big wet and drove home, but racing heart - 110bpm still after laying down 20min, wanna go to tip when settles, pesky ageing process.
Need another drink, heart still pounding grr
@TAB, soz your #Ribs such a bother, do take it easy. Don't worry about ignorant people's comments, never had a bad day or broken bone once in their life I suspect. I only mowed the back lawn, did front 10days back, Think my mower might need a service, playing up grr
Just walked up and found the car car at woolies, grabbed a bag of groceries for big wet and drove home, but racing heart - 110bpm still after laying down 20min, wanna go to tip when settles, pesky ageing process.
Need another drink, heart still pounding grr
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TABSenior Contributor
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Glass of water and put your feet up ? @Former-Member .. candles and batteries?
Been there re palps, semi regular walking seems to keep it at bay for me. Leave dump til tomorrow hey? 😀
Been there re palps, semi regular walking seems to keep it at bay for me. Leave dump til tomorrow hey? 😀
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Unknown userMember
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Hi @Former-Member 💜
Thanks for message.
Good on you for mowing.
Humid isn't it?
Good idea to read sister's card when you feel stronger and I agree, don't answer phone until you feel more on top.
I rarely answer my phone.
Thanks for message.
Good on you for mowing.
Humid isn't it?
Good idea to read sister's card when you feel stronger and I agree, don't answer phone until you feel more on top.
I rarely answer my phone.
