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Sleeping too much
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
Hello @Former-Member xx'
I do get lonely at times -- I am a family person
Hubby is quiet and likes a very quiet life '
mum has a tropical bug now to get over
hubby could not cope without the meds , so he is back on them, so we will see what happens on monday
yes hubby has trouble coping with people
In response to: Sleeping too much
Unknown userMember
Re: Sleeping too much
Good to be free @TAB 😺
Hugs @Shaz51 😙
Sorry I'm going to have to go now, trying to have early night.
Might check in later.
Super duper tired. 😮😊😴❤
Hugs @Shaz51 😙
Sorry I'm going to have to go now, trying to have early night.
Might check in later.
Super duper tired. 😮😊😴❤
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
hope youhave a good sleep my friend @Former-Member 
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
Hi @Former-Member .... 🌷💜
I'm out of sync here cos there are posts further ahead than this one .... but yeah .... I agree with your take on it .... the people you are describing are not going as far out of their way for you as you would for them ..... but it's hard to change that in others .....
Rather than it being about you per se, I bet they do that in the relationships all over their lives .... organise people into what suits them best instead of having the compassion and empathy to put themselves out of their (controlling ?) comfort level to accommodate the needs of someone else who .... doesn't have a car to use so can't be as flexible .... is only visiting for a very short time ..... has a greater need (grief resolution) than the every-week church attendance that will be there next week, if you skip it this week ..... would be just as happy to have afternoon tea later as to have lunch as planned and is happy to work with the double-booked or unexpected appointment, given a say in the matter, as an equal relationship would offer .....
Hugs Hon ..... but it's a bit like spilled milk .... don't know that you can actually teach these people that degree of empathy of the sensitivity chip is either absent or teeny-tiny .....
😘💕💗
I'm out of sync here cos there are posts further ahead than this one .... but yeah .... I agree with your take on it .... the people you are describing are not going as far out of their way for you as you would for them ..... but it's hard to change that in others .....
Rather than it being about you per se, I bet they do that in the relationships all over their lives .... organise people into what suits them best instead of having the compassion and empathy to put themselves out of their (controlling ?) comfort level to accommodate the needs of someone else who .... doesn't have a car to use so can't be as flexible .... is only visiting for a very short time ..... has a greater need (grief resolution) than the every-week church attendance that will be there next week, if you skip it this week ..... would be just as happy to have afternoon tea later as to have lunch as planned and is happy to work with the double-booked or unexpected appointment, given a say in the matter, as an equal relationship would offer .....
Hugs Hon ..... but it's a bit like spilled milk .... don't know that you can actually teach these people that degree of empathy of the sensitivity chip is either absent or teeny-tiny .....
😘💕💗
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TABSenior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
Yes well potentially anyway I thought as writing that @Former-Member .. always self constraints etc .. never miss it or even realise have it it til dont have re freedom...
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Unknown userMember
Re: Sleeping too much
Night @Shaz51 @TAB @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member 😙❤
Night all 😙
Thinking of you tomorrow @Former-Member
Will be an emotional day. xo 💜
Night all 😙
Thinking of you tomorrow @Former-Member
Will be an emotional day. xo 💜
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TABSenior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
Night @Former-Member 😜
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
Goodnight @Former-Member .... 💕
I had a big day out today. I have been back on and off this afternoon, but helping someone who was struggling for a while there ....
Thinking of you tomorrow @Former-Member ..... 😘❤️💕
I am glad you enjoyed the bus ride. I have taken the bus before to visit my dad, and it can be nice to not be the one having to concentrate on driving, and it sounds like you enjoyed the company too.
Enjoy your stay with your boy .... and being with him tomorrow, although I agree with @Former-Member, it will be a really big day for you. Lots of self-care needed after that one .... ❣
Hugs .... 🤗💜
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TABSenior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
Hi @Faith-and-Hope 😀 .. Pax.. hope you had a better day today
Oh hi @plasmo ..hope you didn't OD on Schwarzwalderkirschetorte ..well or Streusel ..or Maccas 🍔 😀
Oh hi @plasmo ..hope you didn't OD on Schwarzwalderkirschetorte ..well or Streusel ..or Maccas 🍔 😀
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
It was a good day today @TAB ....
Still having to avoid D3 a bit tho cos she's still got the norties .... being oppositional and antagonistic ...
grrrr ... but it's her way of coping. And mine is avoiding the power struggles ....
