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Sleeping too much
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DecadianSenior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
Hi @Former-Member
I just got up and found an ancient cigarette lighter - it has to be at least 12 years since I quit - and I have lit - lighted - whichever - an aromatherapy candle for you - vanilla - very calming
So - I guess I know you are feeling very bleak atm - and what can I say - knowing that - there are no words - there isn't really anything - a large part of your life - your future - who you are - your sense of being a mother - all of this was torn away and the wound does reopen at times
And you are at your parents' place and it sounds anything but fun - and you are such a kind person - and I am not sure about the data on the computer and your brother - that would be a problem I guess -
I am having a spell of "mother stuff" - I got triggered yesterday - I guess it's always there - and it is so hard when no one mentions it. In my case I would be told to stop upsetting other people - what would happen if you mentioned it - your daughter I mean
So sorry Tawney - God bless you - I feel for you - and what can we say
Lots of hugs
Dec
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Unknown userMember
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Thinking of you @Former-Member 😙💜
Sending you lots of love and hugs.
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Sending you lots of love and hugs.
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DecadianSenior Contributor
Re: Sleeping too much
Hi @Former-Member
Sending you my tears - understand so much - and I wish I could send you a pic of the candle - it's somewhere in my computer - but alas - it will turn up eventually - it's a real candle filling the air with a soothing vanilla aroma
So many people care Tawney - so many - I am deeply touched myself
Dec
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BridgetjonesSenior Contributor
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God bless you @Former-Member. Have been following your posts. Thinking of you atm and sending you a hug. Sending very best wishes to you too... xxx
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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❤️💕 @Former-Member .... walking with you all day ....
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Unknown userMember
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Thanks again, you're all beautiful souls.
Jusr had a lovely chat with my son, he seems yo be coping with his double loss this week. Thinks I should try visit sis again when I get my act together to leave, haha
I'm at the shop on tears waiting for mum&dads fish&chips to cook after visiting Bro4 to jump start his car. But crying. I don't understand. Maybe because ma yelled at me over something last visit re my sister - taking sis side. Did I tell you she lit sparkerlers 9pm last night, waved them in the air and planted them around the letterbox, to celebrate Aust Day. My girl stopped breathing Australia Day - yesterday is my hardest day (just because Emergency Services stuffed up resus for the next hour+ to cross into midnight doesn't make yesterday any different for me. But I GET that everyone else wants to party and scream celebrations into my space through the TV + She was hurried 3rd Feb so must get on the road & find some cave to bury myself a while away from everyone.
Thanks so much for all the candles & light. Love you guys xox
Jusr had a lovely chat with my son, he seems yo be coping with his double loss this week. Thinks I should try visit sis again when I get my act together to leave, haha
I'm at the shop on tears waiting for mum&dads fish&chips to cook after visiting Bro4 to jump start his car. But crying. I don't understand. Maybe because ma yelled at me over something last visit re my sister - taking sis side. Did I tell you she lit sparkerlers 9pm last night, waved them in the air and planted them around the letterbox, to celebrate Aust Day. My girl stopped breathing Australia Day - yesterday is my hardest day (just because Emergency Services stuffed up resus for the next hour+ to cross into midnight doesn't make yesterday any different for me. But I GET that everyone else wants to party and scream celebrations into my space through the TV + She was hurried 3rd Feb so must get on the road & find some cave to bury myself a while away from everyone.
Thanks so much for all the candles & light. Love you guys xox
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Unknown userMember
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Hey @Former-Member. Your resilience is amazing. You are truly a wonderful woman trying to do the best in a crazy mixed up world. Keep strong you are doing well, and the tears are perfectly natural and needed. I'm glad you and your son have talked and it went ok. Sending you my love and hugs. 💜🤗
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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❤️💕 @Former-Member ...
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Unknown userMember
Re: Sleeping too much
Palpitations since last night, trying so hard not to crack, wish I wasn't alone
