Sleeping too much

Oh no, @Former-Member, I have missed out on Carrott Cake tooo ?,

apparently so @Former-Member .. it was in ref to jug of cafe au lait got for @Faith-and-Hope ..ie it;s french for 'why' .. it's one word apparently, after having looked it up .. pourquois.. I remember it from watching movies on sbs .. 'travail' is work etc

It's ok if you don't get around to replying to my messages straight away @Former-Member xoxo

I understand that you have been going through a very emotional time lately. I was just wondering if you had seen the messages, that's all. Sometimes messages get missed.

I typed a brief message in the Beer garden to you, thought you were there, lol. No worries. Gets confusing where to type sometimes.

Soon time to get ready for bed. Been shopping again today. Sorted some things out at the bank, things like that.

I know what you mean about Christmas. I prefer not to hear about it, lol. I try to pretend it's not going on. It starts too early in the shops, with the decorations, music etc. I think December is early enough to start with all that. My dad died at Christmas time years ago, so that is one of many reasons I prefer to forget about it. Will do something to distract myself though. It won't be with family, that's for sure.

I've had heaps of inner healing counselling, very good, helped alot. That was years ago. Still trying to get on top physically though, plus still other issues regarding family to overcome. Step at a time.

Anyway, I hope that you are feeling a bit better, sounds like it.

I enjoy hearing your updates about the renovations you are doing. xoxo

Dear @Former-Member

Hello, how are you?

Christmas is difficult is'nt it? Poor husband is always a little anxious coming up to Christmas.

I always try to remember:

He wakes up every day very confused about what is happening. The way to go for him is to be as peaceful as I can but he doesnt remember this for me always because I need this too.

We are getting there. Our dog Arlo helps out immensely. We switch into talking in the present aobut Arlo......

Hello @PeppiPatty You are such a sweetie. Thankyou for your message. I love the photo of your cute dog. Looks like you take very good care of him/her, because he/she is very clean and white. Is it a boy or girl?

Yes, it very important to be peaceful, isn't it? And to keep in the present. That is so good that you have Arlo to distract you and hubby.

You asked how am I. It is a struggle every day, but I do my best to do things to distract myself from how I am feeling, not always easy. Some days aren't as bad, some days are ok.

How have you been PeppyPatty?

I am going to try and sleep very soon. xoxoxoxoxo

I feeling like crying for you @Former-Member - aw - I could cry anyway

My mother was so uncaring - your mum writes that she cares more about you than you think - but harps on about bra size - and I guess you have enough for your bra as I do -

What about the children who died - I know everyone here cares about each other's sorrows large and small - and this is so wonderful - what is the matter with our mothers?

I can't get past my family being too upset to talk about it - I feel as if their being upset is a higher priority than what I have been told to keep to myself

Tawney - I care so much - I care about your mother's cancer and you just had your daughter's birthday and I really believe what her texts were - and my mother died and never said anything about my son - like - he died before her - might she not think he was waiting for her

I understand but I am in a mess today and not sure about my writing - I feel like I am swimming through jelly - I am not even thinking what flavour or colour - I feel for you more than I do for myself

Lots of hugs Tawney

Dec

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