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Sleeping too much
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And here is a bunch of flowers @Former-Member for you inspired by sitting on your verandah looking at your garden with all the Australian native wildlife. I'm still here @Former-Member if you want to talk or share memories or just be.
And a box of Ferrero Rocher to share
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Unknown userMember
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Homemade wholemeal piklets with maple syrup and cream on the table too. Please help yourself. @Former-Member 
I love the flowers @Former-Member They look beautiful on the table.
I hear the birds in the garden.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Hi @Former-Member
Still got both hands tied re images ... grr .... but that's a beautiful one @Former-Member ....
Planning to visit a church a bit later today @Former-Member .... will light a candle for your girl there. We all carry her with us now. She is a part of you, and you are a part of us ....
Do you put garden ornaments into J's garden ? Not talking gnomes here .... but there are beautiful garden-art pieces .... coloured glass stones .... little pun-wheels .... lady-bugs or butterflies in sticks (I found one at a zoo that is made of stained-glass and metal - weather-proof ....
Just a thought, if you like it. On a beautiful evening you could put some little tea-light candles into the garden. Believe it or not, the bottom of a plastic milk carton makes an amazing candle holder .... creates a safety barrier for the flame (leave the sides cut fairly high) but glows and magnifies the light ....
Hugs n hugs .... and thinking if you especially today ....
💐💕💐🌸💐💜💐🌷💐🍫💋🍰☕️🍩🐠❄️
Still got both hands tied re images ... grr .... but that's a beautiful one @Former-Member ....
Planning to visit a church a bit later today @Former-Member .... will light a candle for your girl there. We all carry her with us now. She is a part of you, and you are a part of us ....
Do you put garden ornaments into J's garden ? Not talking gnomes here .... but there are beautiful garden-art pieces .... coloured glass stones .... little pun-wheels .... lady-bugs or butterflies in sticks (I found one at a zoo that is made of stained-glass and metal - weather-proof ....
Just a thought, if you like it. On a beautiful evening you could put some little tea-light candles into the garden. Believe it or not, the bottom of a plastic milk carton makes an amazing candle holder .... creates a safety barrier for the flame (leave the sides cut fairly high) but glows and magnifies the light ....
Hugs n hugs .... and thinking if you especially today ....
💐💕💐🌸💐💜💐🌷💐🍫💋🍰☕️🍩🐠❄️
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Ooh ooh @Former-Member .... save one of the coconut Ferrero Rochers for me pleeaase .... 💕
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Unknown userMember
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Hey @Former-Member. How are you going? Worried about you. Please check in when you can. 💜🤗
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Unknown userMember
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Double that up for me too @Former-Member..😘❤
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Unknown userMember
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Hello everyone, wishing you all well tonight and tge weekend ahead.
I am so touched (good tears) by all your expressions of condolences, concern, creative, genuine well wishes, wow!!! thank you so much!!! (tissues please).
I'm exhausted so won't stay on long, just wanted to say thanks.
I've spent most the day sleeping (of cause) but just before dark I raced up the shop, grabbed some flowers and visited the cemetery and said hi to my girl there. Its sombre but real and I feel I've 'done something' for her. Took dog who had a good run round.
On leaving I rang a church friend, a widow and she met me for coffee whichade the 1/2hr trip easier to bear. Needed that 'people' contact , in the flesh (thank you God), tears. People don't realise how important it is for us alone, or how they take it for granted in their own life.
When I got home I checked the letter box to find a lovely card from my oldest friend down south, acknowledge the grief and encouraging my resolve and deep rooted faith and strength of character, evident to all those who want to see. Was nice. ALSO was a mystery parcel, from an online shopping outlet with no card or letter if explanation. The contents is a cushion cover with a beautiful fabric embroided purple butterfly. Clearly from someone remembering my girl. Very sweet but kinda weird to not know who from, yet somehow not unusual carry on from a blood family plagued with duplicity of MI & mind games. It will come out eventually, but o hate not knowing. The butterfly truly is so beautiful I'm tempted to frame for the wall.
So, I didn't go to the caravan pk, but I survived the day, without alcohol or SH, worked being kind to myself, and actually received much quiet respectful well wishes from the universe. Plus - my tyres didn't explode lol But as much as I love being with you guys here I need to call it a night. Catch you tomorrow. All is well 🙂
I am so touched (good tears) by all your expressions of condolences, concern, creative, genuine well wishes, wow!!! thank you so much!!! (tissues please).
I'm exhausted so won't stay on long, just wanted to say thanks.
I've spent most the day sleeping (of cause) but just before dark I raced up the shop, grabbed some flowers and visited the cemetery and said hi to my girl there. Its sombre but real and I feel I've 'done something' for her. Took dog who had a good run round.
On leaving I rang a church friend, a widow and she met me for coffee whichade the 1/2hr trip easier to bear. Needed that 'people' contact , in the flesh (thank you God), tears. People don't realise how important it is for us alone, or how they take it for granted in their own life.
When I got home I checked the letter box to find a lovely card from my oldest friend down south, acknowledge the grief and encouraging my resolve and deep rooted faith and strength of character, evident to all those who want to see. Was nice. ALSO was a mystery parcel, from an online shopping outlet with no card or letter if explanation. The contents is a cushion cover with a beautiful fabric embroided purple butterfly. Clearly from someone remembering my girl. Very sweet but kinda weird to not know who from, yet somehow not unusual carry on from a blood family plagued with duplicity of MI & mind games. It will come out eventually, but o hate not knowing. The butterfly truly is so beautiful I'm tempted to frame for the wall.
So, I didn't go to the caravan pk, but I survived the day, without alcohol or SH, worked being kind to myself, and actually received much quiet respectful well wishes from the universe. Plus - my tyres didn't explode lol But as much as I love being with you guys here I need to call it a night. Catch you tomorrow. All is well 🙂
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TABSenior Contributor
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..ho k 
so you are pumping your own tyres up now @Former-Member lol ...well done. ..seriously 
glad you had a good day in the end
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TABSenior Contributor
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I hope you had an iceblock on the bench @Former-Member well that's how I would like to see it
yeah weird day here, got lots done, chatted with strangers, went to see 'enemy' at work to sit across desk and re -do paperwork, they offered me work for the afternoon (it was 11am ish) had plans squirmed,. said no, they got a laugh.. then hours later got no notice 4 days back to last site went to again, so driving myself there tomorrow ..its about 400ks one way der
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Unknown userMember
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@TAB. You're sure packing it in these last few weeks, working... Hope it pays well. You drive careful now 🙂
