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Sleeping too much

Unknown userMember29 May 2016, 2:06 pm AEST

Sleeping too much

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Unknown userMember15 Sept 2016, 12:47 pm AEST

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Tell her to bag them tied up @Former-Member.
Let her keep herself busy putting them in bags labelled Salvos or which ever charity is picking them up.
Stick it to her, that it at least allows your dad some dignity.
If you reckon the later will go down alright.
She sounds like a fairly tough lady.

P.s. Pavers sound like a great idea. Your a gem.
☺🌹
My boy's I'll go to my grave decrepit for!!

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TABSenior Contributor15 Sept 2016, 12:54 pm AEST

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Thx @Former-Member Am ok. Bumped into big boss from old work last nite. He drives cabs at night, he says it keeps him busy.. Anyway, he asked where I was working, went over a few things that happened last time there. He said they have work and I should go in there. I had been avoiding that, and making excuses to self.

See what happens. Not up to it atm, feeling phys knocked out today.

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TABSenior Contributor15 Sept 2016, 12:56 pm AEST

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@Former-Member

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor15 Sept 2016, 12:58 pm AEST

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💜💐 ..... Sounds like a pattern @Former-Member .... probably your mum suffered something similar growing up and it's her unresolved pain trying to inflict itself on others .... it's a false way of trying to rid yourself of emotional pain .... doesn't work and just lowers your own self-esteem cos she's been / being a b*tch .... and would know it .... but feel compelled to it anyway ....

Yes..... anyone would be carrying deep shame issues as a result of that treatment ..... big hugs @Former-Member ..... you're mother needed to develop her own inner mother too, and she didn't .... but you have ..... well rescued !! You've broken the pattern in your lifetime .... and I have broken my MIL's pattern .... but it wasn't as bad as yours .... and my MiL has learned to be her own inner mother to some degree too. She still carries a sense of shame, but that was probably as much a result of a constantly philandering husband too .... having to turn a blind eye ....

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AIT = Applied Information Technology .... computer studies .... D3 is good at that as well as arty stuff ...

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Unknown userMember15 Sept 2016, 1:03 pm AEST

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Ah no prob's @TAB
You'll do it in a second wind! 😜
Good that cha okays.

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TABSenior Contributor15 Sept 2016, 1:11 pm AEST

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@Former-Member realised barely ate last 2 days til forced self to go servo last nite, may have lost count of pain pills taking as well, lounge is my friend for next hour, while wait to feel half normal der lol how are goin today ? yeah I was going to work monday yeah right.. was kidding self. gotta get some real food and get back walking when I feel up to it. Drs and dentists monday. Punished self enough think, body sayin get off me.. haha

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Unknown userMember15 Sept 2016, 1:20 pm AEST

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Thanks F&H, means a lot to be heard on that one. My son's degree was IT most the young ones do that. In high school my boy lead the gang with making movies & hosting LAN parties. He's a leader. Loves computer graphics. D3 will be glad she holds a Cert-4 in this, although my son says its challenging staying up to date with rapidly changing new technologies is challenging. Sometimes I wish he did carpentry or something more grounded. 🙂

Hey @TAB, are you getting enough vegies & protein in your diet. Have a big steak once a week to keep your iron levels up (or daily fresh spinach). Lots of water. How's that tooth abcess? Dental problems can really make you unwell. Look after yourself there. Big Hug!

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Unknown userMember15 Sept 2016, 1:23 pm AEST

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Lol ya whackadoo! @TAB.
Buuut do know what cha mean...oddly had to make myself eat well last few days.
Think stress was starting to physically make me feel unwell too.
Errr such a pain when you got to look after self isn't it?!!
Bugger heh!!!
Yep good idea getting your body primed for a dental whack & doc visit. If I eat wrong, my brain goes wrong! No comment please.Lol
Um, don't have to do school run this arvo, but got another concert tonight.

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TABSenior Contributor15 Sept 2016, 1:29 pm AEST

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Hi @Former-Member ..what, no tv?? what th' .. lol .. yeah, get red meat at least twice a week, usually cheap lambchops or small roast, not sure what happened to veg, had been doing frozen, seem to have backed off that too. I had been taking lots of fish oil then stopped for some reason a few days ago, but that's a bandaid for craapy diet/lifestyle. Will get food today, wasnt trying to be sooky, just hard not to mention it when feel like this. and yes, not getting tooth fixed ages has had an effect as well am sure. Hope you are okay today

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TABSenior Contributor15 Sept 2016, 1:35 pm AEST

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mmyeap @Former-Member funny how always seem to read it backwards re diet, mood, feeling well ..ahh ..routines, and doing normal things normal people do.. stupid blinkers.. everythings fine til it goes pear shaped der

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