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Sleeping too much
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
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Thank you to you too @utopia. You have helped me so much and here for me when I am not good.
I am so thankful for so many people on here for just listening to me supporting me. I feel so loved by so many here; more than my own family. I have realised today that for me to move forward I need to take the plunge, the next step forward which is a huge step and accept thqt my parents will never change; so therefore I need to live my life the way I want and let it be.
I can't change anyone and I know that my parents will not change. So what will be will be. Boy i can't believe i have just written this, tears down my face; but it is what i need to do - let go and live my life.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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Because @TAB you are trying hard to maje your life better. And I enjoy your sense of humour. And you help brighten up other peoples day.
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TABSenior Contributor
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I wasn't fishing for it, but thanx 
@utopia
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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@BlueBay. I have tears of joy running down my face - where are the tissues when I need them.
Wow. What a huge statement you just made. You be surs to repeat it to your therapists. They will be blown away with happiness for you.
I can't believe how much you have grown since coming back from hospital.
I hope you are proud of yourself, because I'm so very proud of you.
You @BlueBay are on your way to a new name. Maybe 'i believe' or 'it's mylife'.
Fantastic ♥♥♥♥
Wow. What a huge statement you just made. You be surs to repeat it to your therapists. They will be blown away with happiness for you.
I can't believe how much you have grown since coming back from hospital.
I hope you are proud of yourself, because I'm so very proud of you.
You @BlueBay are on your way to a new name. Maybe 'i believe' or 'it's mylife'.
Fantastic ♥♥♥♥
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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@TAB. You don't need to fish - to be recognised.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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S'olay @utopia .... probably time we had a call/-out to @Former-Member ..... 😆 ... high five !!
My memory has been shocking today .... have has trouble recalling words in generl conversation .... took it as a great excuse not to talk to anybody ..... lol ..... would probably have just grouches at them anyway ....
Have escaped for a river walk .... feather and fin company if I can find it .... starting to sprinkle after a nice day weatherise .... making little diamantés on my phone screen .... 😊
I don't take much distracting sometimes .... 😆
@Former-Member ..... they have already trimmed and bent at school asmuch as humanly possible .... D3 has to get her big-girl pants on and decide to play by the rules and get herself over the bar .... yeah, she's had a raw deal. been ill and injured a lot, and WH was a nightmare over all of us last year before we worked our how to settle him down ... but now she's using all of that to behave without integrity ... if she was trying her heart ou despite the setbacks it would be easier, but she's doing a Princess B*tch-Face move at a really, really bad time .....
Threatened her with not being her sister's bridesmaid today .... if she's too sick for school then she's too sick for that too ....
She's pulled her head in this arvo .... and got herself into her two last classes at school today .... lets see what happens tomorrow ...
My memory has been shocking today .... have has trouble recalling words in generl conversation .... took it as a great excuse not to talk to anybody ..... lol ..... would probably have just grouches at them anyway ....
Have escaped for a river walk .... feather and fin company if I can find it .... starting to sprinkle after a nice day weatherise .... making little diamantés on my phone screen .... 😊
I don't take much distracting sometimes .... 😆
@Former-Member ..... they have already trimmed and bent at school asmuch as humanly possible .... D3 has to get her big-girl pants on and decide to play by the rules and get herself over the bar .... yeah, she's had a raw deal. been ill and injured a lot, and WH was a nightmare over all of us last year before we worked our how to settle him down ... but now she's using all of that to behave without integrity ... if she was trying her heart ou despite the setbacks it would be easier, but she's doing a Princess B*tch-Face move at a really, really bad time .....
Threatened her with not being her sister's bridesmaid today .... if she's too sick for school then she's too sick for that too ....
She's pulled her head in this arvo .... and got herself into her two last classes at school today .... lets see what happens tomorrow ...
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Unknown userMember
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@utopia and everyone else
I am so proud of all of us for fighting whatever problems we are going through. Everyone has their own struggle, and every person that fights - yes @utopia, you too - is a great inspiration and help.
Sorry all that I have not been much on the forum, I'm doing ok and I hope you're all doing ok too.
Big hugs to all x
I am so proud of all of us for fighting whatever problems we are going through. Everyone has their own struggle, and every person that fights - yes @utopia, you too - is a great inspiration and help.
Sorry all that I have not been much on the forum, I'm doing ok and I hope you're all doing ok too.
Big hugs to all x
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
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@utopia i didn't mean for you to cry; but at least it's tears of joy 🙂 xxxooo
The only thing is fear - so if I need some help along the way, or a reminder of what i just said or if i fall backwards and need help to get back up - will you help?
Looking back i did just make a huge statement didn't I? I know that i am much freer (is that a word) from my parents; I know i really do love and miss my dad - but - i can't change the situation. I know I want him to hug me, to take care of me - but there is absolutely nothing I can do atm; unless I go to them - and there is no way in hell i will be going back to them like I did the first time. No bloody way, i am not going to be victimised by her emotional rants, her toxic comments and her ignorance of my childhood abuse. It will not happen a second time.
Thank you for your love and support @utopia. I so wish we could all meet (i know we can't) but how great would that be.
take care @utopia xxxooo
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BlueBaySenior Contributor
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@Former-Member
I have missed chatting with you. Nice to see you on here. I am glad to see you are okay. It's a hard and long journey but I am sure all of us will get there in our own time.
Hugs to you @Former-Member
take care xxxooo
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Wow @aadgirl ..... that is HUGE !!
When you feel up to it, send some best-wishes thoughts their way, but we can't carry everything and everyone .... this way you will free yoursel up to invest in your best relationships, and have time and energy to make some new friends along the way ....
So glad you enjoyed that facial ❤. Keep
up with your self-care .... you will find that it is healing ....
💐💕💐💕💐
When you feel up to it, send some best-wishes thoughts their way, but we can't carry everything and everyone .... this way you will free yoursel up to invest in your best relationships, and have time and energy to make some new friends along the way ....
So glad you enjoyed that facial ❤. Keep
up with your self-care .... you will find that it is healing ....
💐💕💐💕💐
