Sleeping too much

Hi @Former-Member

Rather than find a useful quote myself - I think that when we feel the pain of our first breath we cry out out - and this is the primal "I am"

I read that somewhere -

But yes - we could see this a great stage of fools - but then - the fool was the only person who could tell the King the truth

Decadian

You ok @Faith-and-Hope??? Spidy senses tingling, just wondering💜💐

Hi @Faith-and-Hope

Waiting for a centipedes shoes to fall must be a cascade from Hades - it takes that long

Correct me if I am wrong but are you waiting until your WH reaches a state of coherence that will help him to understand his lack of insight into all of this

Is the food and exercise regime that bad it could cause him to have health problems

Oh my - this is really hard for you - how does a family cope with all of this - oh boy

You are on my prayer list

Decadian

Hope you are ok @Former-Member

I dont know if it was my mother's grieving or not @Former-Member . Her priest and her brother over time, everyone warned me about my mother. When dad died she said it was better that way. When my brother died she said he had said that she had loved him the most ... in spite of his 2 wives and 2 sisters. When my sister died ... she mentioned at the house that she had had an argument about sex the day before and then said "dont blame me." I did not blame her, I didnt know she had the argument til she said, but I guess it was her guilt and pushing it away rather than ever having any proper mourning and reconciling conversations. my mother was brilliant at CBT .. for her ... but humans tend to be in groups ... and the groups need to heal too.

Its the believing or at least insisting on being "100% right problem" ... she was always above reproach ... maybe thats why I fess up all the time.

I thought it was so weird that the memorial I went to yesterday ...relatively formal and distant ... felt better and more honest than my mother's funeral ... who was also a formal person

Hope you ok @Former-Member

Yeah @Former-Member 😊 ..... I'm okay

Busy here tonight, and tired ....

Bit distracted by good (?) but unexpected changes in WH behaviour over the last couple of days ..... but trying not to do anything other than be peripherally aware without hyper-vigilance .... probably a bit of body chemistry backwash causing the tiredness, when you brace yourself then find it was without need .... if that makes sense .... 🌷💗

Thanks for asking after me .... probably sounding a bit scatty across the threads today .... guess I'm more nervous about the changes than I thought I'd be .... but they are not a set pattern yet do I can't place weight on them ....

Hi @Former-Member 🌻

How was your day ? Mine was fluffing around with lots of bits and pieces, but managed a good length nap. My walk to the coffee shop and back this morning has had to suffice cos I got called on to help with homework and bridal hens stuff late this afternoon when I had planned a longer walk .... might have been more of a crawl with my current energy level anyway ..... :face_with_rolling_eyes:😆

Think I'm on the same page as you tonight @Former-Member. Half tried to jump in but got lost in it all. No brain left and a high emotion of every kind day has left me scratching my head too. Glad your ok @Faith-and-Hope. I get that your emotions are probably battling your thoughts at the moment as you play this waiting game and wanting to jump to the next phase but are only really maybe just clearing the first hurdle and there is heaps more to come. Think I need to sleep now, hoping everyone is ok. Tomorrow is another big one for me too, my sons assessment through headspace and my therapy appointment so may bit a bit out of it again. Thinking of everyone, I want to tag but too scared I'll leave people out and can't handle that thought right now. Hugs 😊💜