Sleeping too much

I love that pic @Faith-and-Hope

And @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope and @Former-Member

I am off to bed myself - I guess I will sleep in tomorrow too but it's Saturday

Sleep well one and all - maybe you will have good dreams to night -

Dec

Thanks @Decadian

I hope you sleep well tonight, sweet dreams 💜😊😴

Good night @Former-Member @Former-Member @Decadian

Sleep well my friends ....

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Oh @Former-Member thinking of you. Hope you do sleep.

Today is a big anniversary day for me .. its my girl's birthday and therefore its the day I became a biological mother, tho I was a mum before that a year before that ... slept a bit thru the day stayed in jammies ..

I really do know the feeling of not using your mouth for speaking to other people enough .. it is part of the reason why I sing these days .. just to keep the muscles working and the voice going ... so the actual sound of it does not frighten or surprise me ...

Maybe one day SANE will have a conference call skype program so we ... can see and speak to each other ... tho anonymity issues need attending ... weirdly the fact that this is also a hand-written/typed form of communication also suits me for the same reason ...

Hi @Former-Member -

I hope you slept well - Self-Validation is an extremely self-authenicating activity - we need not get lost in what other people might think of us - they are most likely not doing that - too busy worrying about what we think of them

That was hard to learn - but the sun came out in my cloudy mind some day in the past - I forget when - I realised people do not remember the small stuff-ups in our lives - only the big one - and imo - how dare they?'

@Appleblossom

Big Anniversary - like you I already had a child when I became a biological mother - that was hard work - getting to that point - years of trying - and luckily - being experienced made a huge difference with the prem-term second child's failure to thrive - if she had been my first child that would have been overwhelming

So I hope the day isn't or wasn't too rough in any way - I know your life was pretty difficult back then - and I did have some jammies in the middle of winter - but they were poor quality and the seams burst in the seat - I got my money back with the first pair - second - couldn't be bothered

Then I went shopping in the shopping mall - and there were a lot of jammie tops on a circular rack - guess what - some matching the poor quality jammies I got at the supermarket - ah - the sign read "tops" - just the tops

I am wondering if people would purchase just the tops - maybe they would - but strange

Anyway - a jammie day can't hurt - it's just that right now all I have of jammies is the top of the second pair - so yes - there are times when I just sleep in half a pair of pyjamas

Have a happy anniversary on become a biological mother - I guess there is a daughter attached to this date but I know there a difficulties there - though I forget the details now

All the best today @Appleblossom

Decadian

Hey @Former-Member, how are you going today. I was a bit wobbly this morning, doing ok now but that's cause I'm lying in bed typing here and hiding from the real world😳. I hope you've got into your garden. The weather is very average here, wind and rain🌨🌬 Thinking of ya💜💐😊

Wow @Former-Member. I think I'd be throwing a party if I achieved all that in a day. No wonder your body is tired. It's good that you found some optimism and drive for today, think I need to do that but you've possibly just inspired me. I had a win to today I might throw on my moving forward thread later but it was more of the emotional kind similar to yours too, now I need the achievement kind where I tick a box or two. Tea is a mystery tonight. I think there are 5 of us, two sons, two girlfriends and me. Pretty sure one of the girls is cooking soup while I hide in my room for now. I might just throw together tortellini for whoever wants it. I'd still prefer your Indian dish from last night. Take care, stay strong, you've done really well today 💜😊