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Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hi All

There is a thread operating on the Lived Experience Forum under Night Shift where members who are having trouble sleeping for any reason give a bit of a shout-out, to see if there is anyone else sleepless and looking for company. It's been such a great thing, I thought I would start one over here too.

I have had the odd few nights where I have woken up on and off, and my kids have been having a bit of trouble some nights too, depending on what has happened during the day.

Being a carer can be lonely too, so if you are making an after-midnight cup of something hot, and wonder who else might be doing that too, maybe have a look-in here and see if anyone else is about.

☕️

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Hi @Shaz51

All the best for your big weekend - Trusting it all goes to plan for you 🙂

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Thank you @Determined xx

after all these months of planning , and family members arriving tonight and tomorrow '

doing the hall up in the morning , some meet tonight , big dinner tomorrow and a lunch on sunday xx

Hope Hubby survives the weekend , he will need a holiday

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Oh yes @Smc Now you mention that I did hear of it and wonder about the connection. Serenity being the name of their ship if I'm not mistaken. I'll have to find it and watch it. That would be interesting if they did use it in that way and would be interesting to see the storyline they'd take with it.

I hope you enjoy your weekend. So both you and @Shaz51 have big weekends ahead 😄 Good for you! and I hope you thoroughly enjoy your getaway. 👍🏼

@Appleblossomand @Kurra I keep seeing you flit in and out usually just as I'm out or in. I do like to look for your posts around the place, so here's just a "Hello" from me for next time you drop by 💐🌹🌿

@Former-Member I hope you are feeling stronger and return somewhere soonish. I wish there was something I could do, just know I am thinking of you and hoping your grounding returns. 💝

@Faith-and-Hopehello to you, you always seem so busy around the place, I worry that sometimes all that support you give doesn't drain you somehow, just make sure you offset it somehow, especially being in your carer role. I'm sur you have a fairly good balance, but please just be careful. 🎨 ⚖

Hello @Determined I do hope you are doing well, I don't think we have officially met but I've seen you post in here a few times so a shout out to you along with a cheers 🎀

💗 💕 🌷 💐 💗 💕 🌷 💐 💗 💕 🌷 💐 💗 💕 🌷 💐

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Thanks so much @Former-Member ..... ❤️💕🌷💐❣

I recharge my batteries through my church, and I was there tonight. Yes, I am mindful re burnout and only do what I can .... I have a lot of pent up energy owing to a situation that is full on, but unresolvable in the here and now, so it helps to spend it somewhere .... and while I am not free to pursue supporting others with it as much as I might like irl ... the forums bring the opportunity to me.

I received a lot of support last year when my world was crazier than it is at the moment, but that can change at any time, and I might be the next one looking for a shoulder to cry on over hot chocolate in the middle of the night ....

❤️💕

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Good! @Faith-and-Hope Good that you are mindful of it and good that you can reach out if you need to. That's very reassuring to me. I did think your role in here might be a little that way in regards to your real life situation, so in that way it's therapeutic in nature, which is also what I suspected it might be.

Still. be vigilant , because these things can creep up on us before we even realise it. Also inclined to think 🎨 is a key outlet for your balance 😄 So don't let it slide for you. That's Tooky speaking to you, so listen up! 😄

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@Former-Member. Hey thanks for thinking of me last night.

Hey its a big blow isnt it about Mitchell Starc being sent home from India with a stress fracture to his foot? Not sure who they will replace him with, but I would love to see Patrick Cummins get a start. Ha ha, for anybody who doesnt follow sport much, I am talking about Cricket!

Actually today I am feeling a little better thankyou. Yes, more grounded .... back to reality you might say. I hope thats the case anyway. I even got a few hours sleep last night, so that should help.

I agree with you about the workload of @Faith-and-Hope, Faith you seem to be everywhere. You are amazing. Where ever I decide to turn up, you're there. Its very reassuring. I dont know how you manage that, with everything you have to contend with in your own life. It certainly no small thing being a carer. I know, because I'm one too. Although I know I have an easier time of that than many. I'm glad you have your spiritual faith, I realise it is a vital support to many.

Also hi to all my other rescuers, ie @Shaz51 @Smc @Kurra @Appleblossom @Zoe7 @Former-Member. Which reminds me, @Former-Member, no problem in tagging me on that Dissociative Id Disorder thread you put me on yesterday. Although I probably dont have much advice for her, I will try to drop by and say hello to her later.

Have a good day all.

Sherry xx

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Hi @Former-Member and all .... 🤗💕

Mostly I am just responding to notifications on my busy days, like today, where I am running my tooshie off with family stuff, but it means I will tend to miss the "F&H" references .... not meaning to ignore anyone..... I tend to pick those up later when I have more time to come through browsing on a thread and catching up with everyone's news. Often I just stop and check emails and respond to those, cos I'm getting to-do emails from WH constantly and have to kee on top of those anyway .....

So .... hi and bye for the moment. Will probably check in at the other end of the day, but I will be reading if not responding when I get a moment here and there .....

❤️💕

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@Former-Member hey girl! Nice to see you. Yes Mitch's injury is a major blow to the bowling attack no doubt about that. I'd say cummins would be front runner, but there are a few others they could choose from so we will just have to wait for confirmation, they have to choose soon if they haven't already.

Glad to hear you are more grounded today.. you stay away from anything that could reverse that. You don't need that yo yo effect. Don't go thinking you are stronger than you are and take on too much, internally or externally. You know how annoyingly easily that damn fog can roll in, no use going out to find it.

Did you watch any AFLW? The Bulldogs/Brizzy? I see the Brizzy girls are continuing their unbeaten trek to the GF. Not bad for the "experts" saying the first win was an "upset". What do they know hey? Good to see the Lions girls proving them wrong.

Suppose this should really be in the sports thread, but hey... easy to discuss it over a hot chockie too 🙂

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Hi @Former-Member. Good to see you again, I've missed you!

Yes well, they still have 2 tests to go, so apparently they will send in a replacement from Australia, even though they have Bird already over there. Backup I guess.

Yes I have been feeling a little better today thanks. I just visited Zoe's thread though, because I felt up to it. Admittedly it has knocked me around a little because of the similarities to my own experience, but I'll be okay. Doing some deep breathing and distraction things right now. An AFL game is on now between Adelaide and Brisbane, so I have started to watch that. But I did watch some of the AFLW match earlier between Bulldogs and Brisbane. Yes the Brisbane girls have been very impressive.

Yes sport is a good discussion topic over a nice hot chocolate, you're right.

Thanks Tooky. I needed that.

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Yep @Former-Member am watching the Lions/Crows too. Very interested in watching the girls afterwards because it's interesting for 2nd on the ladder. Carlton did themselves no favours losing to Freo last night, if you caught that or at least the result.

Think I shall get myself something else other than a hot chocky.. bit hot here... not sure what... any suggestions? One of those thingos F&H was serving up the other day would be nice.. although I think I'd have to have a slightly smaller one.. or one of those cones someone was giving out... those looked really yum actually.

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