Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hi @Former-Member @Former-Member and everybody

I actually talked a little football last night with friends .. but it was historical .. I am out of touch with official sport atm. ... lol ... but enjoying that you guys connect so well.

cheers

Hello @Appleblossom , hope you are doing well today. Haven't really been out and about too many of the threads today to see how you are travelling. Thanks for popping in and saying "Hi". 😄

@Former-Member yep, they had that draw with GWS but that was thier first outright win. Oh Mr Betts just missed a goal 😞 . I like Mr Betts. Who do you support again? I forgot - PTSD attention span = cr@pola I swear! :face_with_rolling_eyes:

@Former-Member - Yes I'd forgotten about the draw, I actually saw the end of that match. Yeah you got it - concentration and attention span is totally shot! I follow the Sydney Swans, who play tomorrow. And unfortunately the Swans dont have an AFLW team. Yet. Hopefully they will in future. So since I dont have my real team in, I kind of like Adelaide, because I like the big girl who plays for them. Cant remember the name, of course. She's really good. She has lost heaps of weight, is a real goer and a great kick for goal. Wonderful inspiration for young girls I reckon.

@Former-Member I think that is Sarah Perkins... or someone Perkins... yes I like her too. Do you know that story about her? Quite a great story I reckon. 🏉 They play next and really hoping they win because of the loss last week.

Hello @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member, @Appleblossom, @Determined, @Anony18, @Former-Member

I am here for a second before going to the family reunion lunch soon

Last night we had a family reunion dinner where there were a big crowd of us

Dinner Friday night -- wow , getting tired my friends

Hello @Anony18 xx

Came home at 1pm, very tired

Hubby is now asleep

Got a BBQ tonight with some of the family but NOT going as it will be toooo much for hubby

Sometimes we need to be able to say No when we need too

Hi @Shaz51

I am so tired and could use the sleep but I have to work before catching up with some friends later. Agree sometimes we definitely need to be able to say NO. Only do what you believe you can and do not cross the limits. Has the family reunion events been going ok for both of you?

Hi everyone else! I hope your weekend has been going great.

Sorry been a bit MIA on the forums this week. It has been busy waking up, working then go play tennis/dance etc then after back to work til wee hours of morning and then back to work again. Then on Thursday morning got a surprise text from my partner to say because he has alot of stuff he is making a return overnight trip. So Friday & Saturday was spent with him. He seems happier of late now that he is holidaying. Helps that his mum and sister are dealing with extended family issues (which apparently has not been happy ones!). Telling him go on his holiday and when his holiday ends they will sit down and tell him all that has been happening. They know full well that if they told him what has been happening then he will get so mad, cut his holiday short and return home early which ruins his trip. Also helps his brother has been behaving well and not act up. So things are looking good for him and his mental health.

He opened up to me the Saturday early morning when we were busy watching movies on couch, having a few drinks. He was going to the loo a bit and shower quite a bit as well. I asked him if all was ok and he said cause his meds had finished the anxiety was back and today was the first day that he is back on the meds (earlier he went see psych and got the prescription) so he was real anxious and had a stress cigarette which later made him feel icky so he showered. It is a good thing that he was honest and seemed self aware and trying sort it out. He kept apologising to me but I told him don't be sorry and that understand and was hugging him so he feels a bit better. Hopefully helped a little.

The partner be back this weekend with the remaining luggage of his and back for my ball. He mentioned he is coming back just for me and my ball. Makes me feel loved but slightly guilty cause it is cutting his trip a bit short and I know how much of a break he needs at the moment.