Angels333Senior Contributor
Self Harm
It's ruining my life
Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.
Angels333Senior Contributor
It's ruining my life
In response to: Self Harm
Zoe7Senior Contributor
I think you are in a perfect place to do the TAFE course @Angels333 It would be challenging for you mentally but woud also no doubt give you a lot of insight into yourself and mental illness in general. Your lived experience would also add to that and would be an advantage in actually working with people - so I say go for it.
I did an extra module of DBT after I had already done 2 rounds because my pdoc wanted me to. I was so over going each week and going over the same things again but it did also give me some direction in my week ...and I found it much easier to get my head around things the second time around. Only you can know if you want to keep going but I would suggest if it is something that gives you purpose, direction and support then keep going.
In response to: Self Harm
MDTSenior Contributor
In response to: Re: Self Harm
Angels333Senior Contributor
@MDT hey, in and out of sleep right now. How are you going tonight? Sorry if I don't reply, wanting to sleep xx
In response to: Re: Self Harm
Unknown userMember
My sweet Angels, I am hoping that today is an ok day for and that your appointment goes as well as it can. Sending you a little light, lots of love and some gentle hugs to help you through today. 💜Nikki
@Angels333
In response to: Self Harm
JupiterSenior Contributor
Hope your appointment goes well today @Angels333 ![]()
In response to: Re: Self Harm
Angels333Senior Contributor
Thanks @Jupiter and @Former-Member Nikki. I feel stronger today, but maybe that's because I want to brush all the issues under the rug, I don't want to address them in DBT. I feel like I will take all the energy in the group for myself.
I'll see how I go, thinking a lot about SH...
In response to: Re: Self Harm
MDTSenior Contributor
In response to: Re: Self Harm
ethSenior Contributor
Hey @Angels333 stay strong today and please stay safe. Sending warm wishes.
In response to: Re: Self Harm
JupiterSenior Contributor
@Angels333 Good to hear you are feeling stronger today. Hoping you are able to get what you need out of your group. I trust that you will reach out as you need for support around those SH urges. Sitting with you through this challenging day... ![]()
In response to: Re: Self Harm
Angels333Senior Contributor
Hey @Jupiter @eth @MDT @Former-Member @Zoe7 @Bunniekins @Appleblossom @Faith_Hope_Love @Shaz51 @TAB @Adge
I'm having a bad day, DBT was good but I am now really struggling with using SH, I haven't done anything yet but I am so stressed, I am parked in my car weighing up the options... I am not suicidal at all just SH...But it's addictive and I have had such a problem before...
I don't know , hopefully I just go and get the groceries and then go home as planned.
XOXO ANGELS333
You’ll soon be able to use one secure login to access all SANE services.
For added security, members are now required to log in with their email address and password - member names are no longer supported for logging in.
If you had a Forums account before 19 May 2026 and haven’t set up your new login yet, you'll be prompted to set up your new secure login when you sign-in.
Fields marked * are required