Please Help

@Serenity1

Personally I find your posts very interesting as I experienced a lot of school disruption during the same years as your girl. Now, I wish my mother had been concerned re my welfare and not just trying to get rid of me to school.

I am glad you think the teacher is being sensitive. Sometimes things take time to settle.

@Serenity1 I didn’t mean to seem like I was ignoring your child’s feelings and yes while I am sure it was upsetting I guess I just disagree with what you seem to think were the intentions of the other child moving. She is still sitting alone so it makes me think she doesn’t want to sit next to anyone in the class and yes it was good of the teacher to restructure the seating in the class but I just don’t believe the other child was deliberately trying to upset your daughter. I am not saying she didn’t upset her more that I doubt that was her intention. But I wasn’t there so a lot of context could be missing from my point of view sorry if I have upset you I didn’t mean to but do believe there has been a misunderstanding. I will stop posting on this thread after this post. Good luck with everything.

It's so good to hear that the teacher was able to fix the situation @Serenity1 and help your daughter feel included. I can imagine that it can be quite daunting to have that happen on 2 days in. Well done to both of you for getting through the first week.

Text is definitely hard to understand, especially since it doesn't convey tone. Sometimes people like to help discuss their own experiences (such as wanting to sit by themselves) to help to provide an understanding of what may have happened. Of course, we are only guessing because we only know what you have told us. We think you are doing an amazing job making sure that your daughter is comfortable, included and in an environment where she can excel.

How are you feeling now that the situation is fixed and you've got the first week done?

Life is a journy and life is not easy never has been, dont over reate and become a helocopter "parent"..does not mean you walk away from "it" but chose the batles you need to win, whish I had you on my side at school , I got smashed due to my dislicia still cant speel that word, told I was stupit which I am not...relax continue to show her your love which is endless, your child has the A mum on her side...remember will get pumbed a lot through life..its how we handle it that matters, I am still working through this process with gate diffilicalty, giving love to your child will make her strong to handle lifes battles, she is in a good place with you their.