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New to forum - struggling big time

New to forum - struggling big time

Hi all,

I thought i would introduce myself - i am new to this forum, or forums in general for that matter.

I am currently struggling with extreme anxiety, every moment of every day, it never goes away. I feel very alone and dont feel like i am getting the support i need. I have a gp and am seeing a psychiatrist through the public health system, but so far, nothing has improved.

I will probably put another post on the 'somethings not right' forum but for now, just wanted to introduce myself.

3 things about me:

I love dogs, especially my fur baby.

I am a Christian, which in some ways makes this all the more difficult - having a mental health issue, and one that is seriously affecting my life, as a Christian.

I love my husband and it is breaking my heart what my state is doing to him, us, and our life.

Anyway, thats it for now, thanks in advance to anyone who reads and replies.

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Re: New to forum - struggling big time

Thanks for checking in on me @Zoe7. Posted replies to you and @BryanaCamp.
Feel like the effects of the med that i took for 2 days have been wearing off this afternoon gradually so while i still have all the crappy symptoms, the escalated ones from the med seem to be subsiding. So i must be grateful for small mercies. Will have to go back to pdoc asap as im not on a long term anti anxiety med again (and their trying to wean me off the short term stuff when im not even close to being stabilised!), so rly need to find the right med. Went to the local pharmacist today and had a good talk with her about options. She was very helpful and free with her time which was nice, not sure if what we discussed will make a differnce going forward or not, have to wait and see when i see pdoc.
Thanks again for checking in on me @Zoe7. I hope you are doing well and had a good day!

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@Doglover I had terrible side effects from a couple of meds - one in particular that made me feel so bad that I went back so far that I nearly landed in hospital. That med I had to stop immediately. So I understand the effects meds can have on us. I do have meds to help with the side effects of other meds but the combination works for me now. It really is trial and error with the amount of different meds available it did take a long time for us to get the right meds and combinations/dosages right but we do have it right now. I hope it doesn't take you as long as it did for me Hon.

Considering how this med has affected you your pdoc should not be angry with you - they need to find something else to try and hope that works. There really are a lot of meds out there that can help - it is finding the right one(s) that can help you.

It is good that you have found us here to share yiur journey and get some support ...and happy to walk that journey with you. Keep connecting with us here - it does make a little difference to be amongst people that understand and although it is a tough road for you - you are not alone

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Re: New to forum - struggling big time

Thank you for your support @Zoe7 , yes it is a tough road, tougher than i could ever have imagined having to go through! I know you and many others have been through the same or worse! But it is a lonely road. Every moment of the day seems to be 'in my head', just constantly focused on me and this horrible situation and the fact that i just cant see a way out. My husband has lost his happy, loving and fun loving wife, and i feel like ive lost my life.

There's a particular reason why i feel so stuck, like there's no way out. Im going to do another post and will tag you and others that have responded to other posts in.

Thanks again for your support @Zoe7 . Wish i cld give you a big hug to say thanks.

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Cyber hugs most welcome here @Doglover Here's one for you too...

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Haha, thats cool. Thanks @Zoe7. Not clever enough on this forum to do one back, but straight back at you! 💚

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Gratefully accepted back @Doglover 💛🧡💙💜💚

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Thanks @Zoe7 😊

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Re: New to forum - struggling big time

Hi my son is 21 and has recently been diagnosed with bpd. We arelooking for a new psychiatrist. Can you tell me who you are seeing. We live in Sydney' east

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Re: New to forum - struggling big time

Hi there @KP024019

A warm welcome to the forums. I am the moderator at the moment and I need to let you know that members are unable to refer to any MH professional they may be seeing on privacy grounds.

A good search engine for finding a psychiatrist is https://www.yourhealthinmind.org/find-a-psychiatrist conducted by the College of Psychiatry where you can look by location and expertise.

Feel free to ask the SANE forum team or the members if you need help with how to use the forum. You might like to check out the Guidelines as they can be pretty useful in understanding how it all works https://saneforums.org/t5/help/faqpage#community-guidelines.

Take Care

Whitehawk

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Re: New to forum - struggling big time

i feel like it will never go away too

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