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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@eth, @Former-Member , @Smc , @Former-Member

went to take mum`s bag of things to the hospital

i was not allowed in as I have a temperture , the nurse checked it twice

the nurse did take the bag for me to give to mum

home again

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Hope you feel better soon @Shaz51 . Thinking of you xx

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@Shaz51.... I found our a couple of weeks ago how hard it is not to be able to visit family. Even when you know it's for their safety, it's still very difficult.

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@Shaz51☹️

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@Shaz51 😥

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Hello @Shaz51

Thank you for tagging me. You certainly seem to have your hands full. I did not mean to add to it the other day. I misread a post on an old thread that I had started here.

You are looking after your Mother which is to your credit. My Mother has dementia and is in a high care facility now. It was very traumatic for family when her health really started to fail. At the time I took part in a MOOC (I think it stands for Massive Online Learing Couse) which the University of Tasmania run. It was really helpful for understanding.

My family business is struggling on as best it can in the current conditions. Hopefully we will be able to access some of the support systems if work dries up. It must be doubly difficult if you have to juggle work with social distancing for your Mother's sake.

Anyway just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you.

cheers.

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Hi @Former-Member 👋 💕

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@Former-Member, you always put a smile on my face when come , I really needed it the other night thank you xxxx

it was wonderful to see you , but i just could not reply at that time the other night

yes our work has gone down with this virus thing

with mum in hospital , there can be only one visitor per day and to stay for only 30 minutes

sending you hugs and for your mum too

@Faith-and-Hope, @Determined , @Former-Member , @Smc

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@Shaz51 thinking of you.

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Hi @Faith-and-Hope.
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