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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

one day at a time @Smc , that is all we can do

we are not working

i got in trouble the other day as i had to take mum up to get her arm redressed

have to take mum up again on monday

see how many of our jobs we will still have when it is over

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ohh it is hard
got told the other day that i should be in isolation with my problems
we are self employed ( cleaning and mowing )

and my husband is thinking we can still keep working

my family and friends are telling me not to work

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My dear @Shaz51

Please do what you need to do for your own physical and mental health. I do believe that stopping work is the best option, for all sorts of reasons. And certainly you need to be very careful to keep yourself isolated as much as possible.

Besides that, I wanted to thank you for the support you have provided to me since I became a member here in September 2016. Your ongoing and comforting support and friendship has always been there or me, and many others. I sincerely hope I may have, in some small way, provided some comfort and support to you over the years as well.

I wish you well in all that you do in this uncertain future we currently have. Please take care of your very special self.

Sherry

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I sincerely hope I may have, in some small way, provided some comfort and support to you over the years as well.

ohhhhh yes and yes you have and you do my awesome friend @Former-Member

wow nearly a 4 year friendship

i miss you when you are not here

any way how are you today , lovely to see you xxxx

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@Former-Member, @Smc , @Adge , @Jacques , @Wanderer , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @Bunniekins , @Faith-and-Hope , @eth

well just got home

taken mum to hospital because of a partially blocke bowel obstruction ( in lots of pain )

keeping her in hospital

came home and cooking dinner

and mr shaz is questioning me and thinking and saying things like,

"when are we working again "

"you dont want to work anymore "

"what are we going to do "

awwwwwwwww

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@Shaz51 💕

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hello @Former-Member

i have tagged you here to read my story

sorry i have to go and lay down , a big day xoxo

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Rest well @Shaz51. Hoping for some peace for you.

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Additional anxiety in uncertainty @Shaz51

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Sending love @Shaz51 I hope your mum's issue clears up quickly. I've had a similar problem from med side effects 3 times and I know how painful it can be. So these days I take metamucil twice a day and also eat prunes most days and that prevents it from getting that bad anymore.

Hope hubby starts to understand why you can't go to work now and why you really have to stay at home as much as you possibly can. That must be difficult for you. Hope you've had a restful night xx

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