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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Good to see you @Former-Member 🌷

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hello and hugs @Former-Member , @Smc , @Determined m, @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @Bunniekins , @Adge

mum is back home but is on ab`s as she has a staf infection in her wound which is fell 6 weeks ago

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Your poor Mum @Shaz51 I hate Staff infections.

I had Staff infection in my surgery wound (inside), & on my skin - from hospital, after surgeries.

Even a tiny scratch on my skin, got infected straight away.

Adge

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I always liked this Saying @Shaz51 It's a Beauty (since you asked for Hugs)...

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thank you for the heartfelt hugs my @Adge

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@Shaz51 Hey my sister Shaz51 love to you and your mum xxxx. Best your mum is out of hospital and at home during this time. Hospital is not a good place atm for elderly people. Doesnt make it any easier for you though. Love peaxxx

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Hey @Shaz51 sorry to hear about your Mum. Sadly it seems the place we go for physical healing can also be ground zero for new infections. It seems you know about self care but easy to forget to look after yourself when your under the pump so hope you are managing to get some me time.
Cheers

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Hi @Shaz51

I heard your Mum has a staph infection after falling on her wound some weeks back and that she has been in hospital but is home now

Is that right? It's not at all good that she has a staph infection and I hope she is all right soon - I'm glad she is taking antibiotics - I wish you both the best

And also Mr Shaz - with so much to think about right now and so much uncertainty I know he is asking you if things will be all right - how can we know? - but I get it - he has lost so much he is uncertain about a lot of things and not dealing with things well

Sending hugs - it's not an easy time at all

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Hello @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @Adge , @Faith-and-Hope , @Former-Member , @Jacques , @Appleblossom

well today has been a busy day catching up with our yard , trimming , mowing , ect

I even cleared my veranda table which is great xoxo

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Hey @Shaz51

Always busy.

I am not sure about leaving my nice new outdoor setting out in the rain. Aaaah the troubles of possessions ... lol.

I decided to paint a room today. I will take my time with it. I did the ceiling a few years ago but when son moved back in I stoppped the job, time to finish it cos there is no furniture in it, cept for his bookshelf, and I can work around that.

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