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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Former-Member Hugs and hugs Sherry you added alot just being there and just being you :). I hope your nightmares leave you alone and maybe today you can have some sleep and rest. Love peaxxx

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@Bunniekins , @Former-Member

I love see members support in the background

And I even see a moderator press the support button xx, I think awwwwww

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Ohhh what a day , got a real serving about someone who has diabetes is caused by what you eat , arrrgggg
I have diabetes because of my kidney disease stage 4 ,
No good talking or explaining because no one is listening

@Bunniekins , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Jacques , @Adge

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People are so predgitist these days, everyone blames food and weight for most diseases, we need to change this mindset and stop assuming why people have the illnesses they have.

gentle hugs my friend, i hope one day people will be more compasisonate.

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Thank you my @Jacques

My SIL went on and on and my MIL agreed with her

Sooo hard to listen to in the car on the way home xxxxxx

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Yes it's not fair to be on the receiving end of prejudice & premature judgements @Shaz51

I have copped unfair unreasonable judgements many times (often) - especially regarding my being single ("Why are you still single"?), & my bowel emergency surgeries.

These people would not like that being said to them - so they should not be saying it to you (or me).

Adge

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I understand my dear friend @Shaz51 it hurts that little bit more when it is family. hugs

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@Shaz51

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we worked today until 2-30pm and then took mum up to have her arm redressed
mum is starting to worry me as she is not sleeping well and i dont think she is eating well either
she get meals on wheels but a lot of it is still in the fridge
after her hospital visit , i have pur her into bed for a sleep xx

@outlander, @Jacques , @Adge , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member , @Smc @Determined , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member

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hello @Former-Member , @Former-Member

sad when my mum feels and asks why she is here , and wanting to go

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