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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Hi @Shaz51

I'm really sorry to hear that your mum is so unwell. It sounds as though your physical and emotional resources are really being tested in this situation. I hope that you are remembering to allow yourself time for resting and meeting some of your own needs.

You've @ mentioned the moderators so I'm wondering if you'd like some extra support with something? If so, I encourge you to email us using team@saneforums.org

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Thank you @Former-Member

I think mum's sleepless night is catching up with her

Soo will ring after and see her tomorrow , hope she feels better

She had her arm redressed today and have stopped AB's as they make her feel sick xxxx

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busy day @Shaz51 and sounds abit stressful with your mum atm. hoping she gets better soon and is just in a rough patch atm
Pain and discomfort can make us feel quite ill so might not be feeling to hungry or uncomfortable to sleep. you could always mention it to the nurses/drs at the hospital when you see them again.....

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the nurses/drs at the hospital knows @outlander and we will see how mum is on thursday when we go up again to get her arm redressed

I think the lack of sleep is the cause my sister xxx

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so glad they know and are keeping an eye out @Shaz51

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today we worked this morning , took mum up to the hospital to get her arm redressed
and we have had the afternoon off as we were both tired by the time we got home at 1-30 pm , mr shaz could of had the whole day off
my kidney specialist appt was cancelled until next week xx

@outlander, @Jacques , @Adge , @Bunniekins @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @eth , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Sophie1 , @Determined , @Smc

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sounds like a busy day @Shaz51 hoping you get some good sleep and some extra rest tomorrow

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today we mowed one lawn
and then I have cleaned the house, vaccummed and moped
washing done
this afternoon going to an engagement party for one of my children i have looked after since he was a baby -- he is 26 years old now

Hello @outlander , @Jacques , @Adge , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member

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Hope get together goes well @Shaz51 .

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Hello @Former-Member , @outlander , @Jacques , @Adge , @Determined , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @eth

I am missing not being here, sorry

No computer

Car problems, kitchen got flooded by the fridge,

Mum, Mr Shaz, my appts

Now a cyclone forming this week

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