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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Former-Memberwe would have to change a few things esp down stairs

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Being independent in her own home is what my mum wants too @Shaz51 .

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Being independent in her own home is what my mum wants too --- very true @Former-Member , my mum wants that but than she wants us to move in with her xxx

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Its an almost universal desire to remain at home independently. @Shaz51 . But it does sound as though your mum realises its not safe for her to remain at home on her own. Hence her desire for you to move in with her. To enable her to remain in her own home for as long as possible. Big decisions.

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yes big decisions @Former-Member , @Former-Member

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i think i am ready for bed
taken mum up to the hospital 4 times this week for redressing and checkups
I had blood tests and eye tests this week for next weeks appts
my mum is becoming sentive to things that are said , etc xxxxx
work , cleaning and mowing in between is catching up to me
Mr shaz was on a high today , busy , busy , waiting for hime to come down xx

@Former-Member, @Former-Member , @Jacques , @Adge , @outlander , @Bunniekins , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @Jynx

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@Shaz51 Hugs and hugs coming your way my sister xxx

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Thank you my sister @Bunniekins , sending you lots of hugs too

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Good morning to you @Shaz51 ... you really really need a break. I hope this weekend can be it.

Another busy week for you next week I see, and hopefully some good news from your specialist.

Did Mr Shaz finally come down a bit last night after being so high yesterday?

@Bunniekins ... ahhh ... a change of profile pic ... what do have have here now? Casper the friendly Pea by the looks of it. Very apt and kinda cute. Read your exchange with Zoe last night and early this morning. Really glad Zoe was there for you .. .she is very wise. I could add nothing ... so my apologies for remaining in the background. Really feel for you.

Sherry

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Morning @Former-Member

Mr shaz crashed last night, slept an snored all night

He has lost his car keys, can't find them , so he is using mine keys , and I don't drive but clever idea ,

We are doing a mowing job this morning

Got a meeting this afternoon, SIL insisted she pick us up instead of taking 2 cars

Done the dishes and the washing and rang mum

Late afternoon relaxing, doing nothing xx

How are you my friend xxxx

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