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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Former-Member, I think mum would love it now if we moved in xx

but thinking of my mr shaz , even though he suggested it , will it be too much for him

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@Shaz51, kind intentions are not always good in practice and wisdom needed.🦉🦉🦉

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very true @Former-Member

soo need to talk to mum and ect

but to think about added protection , mum has it all now

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Was he saying it in jest @Shaz51 , or did he mean it? Wondering if he was being sarcastic. 😀 Your mum will be happy to be home. But it increases dramatically the amount of time you need to devote to her. Any help from MyAgedCare?

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soo wednesday is mum`s arm redressd

and my fasting blood test a week before seeing my kidney specialist

@Former-Member, @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Former-Member , @Adge

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true my sister @Former-Member

mum has " meals on Wheels"

she has a .medal alert button which alerts me and the ambulance like before when she has a fall

mum loves being at home

same thing could happen even if we live at mum`s @Former-Member

mr shaz would of said # no way # before @Former-Member

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extra talking tonight means yes to move down to mums @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Adge

have to talk to mum now xx

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How do you feel about this @Shaz51 ? Is your Mums home big enough to afford some privacy and division of personal space for you all? How do you feel about moving into town? If my memory serves me right ... this is your family home, where you grew up.

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@Shaz51 flexibility the key

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if my memory serves me right ... this is your family home, where you grew up.-- no @Former-Member the house i live in now was my childhood home which i inherited it from my dad 13 years ago when my dad passed awy

my mum, s house was my garndparents house , and i lived there when i was 15 until i got married

there is not much room , we would have o close downstairs to make a room of our own and then come back to our house for our clothes , ect

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